I'll not answer all your questions, but I'll offer some insight having been here for decades.
Things that may be true.....or not
1. Social Security (when it starts in 2019) is only taxed in the UK.
True.
4. We have put the house here in the UK only in my wife's name just in case we sell it at some point to avoid US taxes.
Understood. It's not unusual these days.
5. FATCA+FBAR need to be done starting this year.
FBAR - yes.
FATCA (8938) - Possibly, and possibly depending on whether you file MFJ or MFS. Thresholds are $400,000 and $200,000 accordingly (at 31 Dec.; check instructions for thresholds during year).
8. Will I need to do a UK tax report this year?
Since the UK 2015/16 tax year doesn't end until 05 April 2016, you'll have spent almost the entire year here, so yes, you'll need a UK self assessment return (due to foreign [US] income).
Please turn off the rain........I've had enough now after these last 2 months.
What are you on about? We've another 4 months of rain to go. Steady on, Sir.
You may find over the winter months that your golf course may be closed every so often due do the fairway conditions. It's not unusual, although if it has survived the conditions so far drainage may be good and interruptions may be few.
OK, this is the hard part for those coming from the States to get their head around. I know you've been here before, so this may be a bit of a refresher. Up until June 15 you concentrate on the US tax return and the FBAR (send the FBAR in by 15 June to get in the habit for following years).
After 15 June, start considering your UK return. the earliest deadline (paper) isn't until October, and the ultimate deadline for filing and paying up isn't until the January of the following year. You can't do anything on UK tax until 06 April, and in this country, few think about it until November. You may not receive statements on savings accounts (for example) until August/September.
For someone used to being proficient on US tax returns, the laid back attitude can be a bit of a shock.