Really sorry to hear about your refusal

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But I did show them the wedding certificate and labeled every photograph I included. That said, since we got the news, we mined about 8MB of chat logs and a half gig of trip photographs (though not many of us together in the same frame, there's at least some context), flight confirmations, etc., and I can mail them a whole box full of lovey-dovey if they really want it.
Yes, do mail them that next time (though don't go overboard with everything, just send a selection of things).
It's not the lack of photographs that are the real issue here, it's the fact that as well as 1 or 2 photographs, you MUST also include the following:
- boarding passes from trips to see each other (to show you have visited each other's countries)
- cards/letters you've sent to each other (to show you have contact while apart)
- emails, Skype logs and IM logs (to show you talk regularly while apart).
The reason they were concerned was because they thought it might be a sham marriage where you only met at the wedding and had no contact before wedding or since the wedding, and therefore, you are not in a genuine relationship.
I see from another post or two here that's not recommended, but clearly I have already done the 'too little' route..
There's a difference between sending at least 1 of all each of the required documents and not sending the required documents at all.
A marriage certificate and a couple of photos is not enough to get the visa, because you also have to show that you have visited each other's countries and have regular contact by phone/email/messenger while apart.
The other reason for refusal was because I didn't see that I had to include not just an employment letter and pay stubs, but also bank statements proving that the money actually went into an account. Other than being flabbergasted that they needed all three, I get it. I can get those from my husband. My fault.
Actually this will be the MAIN reason for the refusal. The financial requirement documents are the most important part of the application and if even one bank statement is missing, the visa can be refused, regardless of whether you sent all the relationship evidence.
You MUST send every single one of the following documents, or you won't get the visa:
- 6 months of original payslips showing at least £1,550 before tax
- 6 months or original bank statements showing the deposit of every single payslip
- a letter from your employer, dated within 28 days of your online application date and stating ALL of the following:
1) his employment and gross annual salary;
2) the length of his employment;
3) the period over which he was been or was paid the level of salary relied upon in the application
4) the type of employment (permanent, fixed-term contract or agency).
Optional but recommended as they may ask for it:
- his original job contract
- his latest P60
These documents are all listed clearly on Appendix FM 1.7, page 34-35:
https://www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/525708/Appendix_FM_1_7_Financial_Requirement.pdfAnd the specifics of what each financial document must contain and what format it must be in are listed in Appendix FM-SE:
https://www.gov.uk/guidance/immigration-rules/immigration-rules-appendix-fm-se-family-members-specified-evidenceAll in all, I must say, first dealings with the UK government, not highly recommended. The person who wrote this document had all the charm of the sauciest motor vehicles clerk I've ever dealt with stateside. ("I note that no satisfactory reason has been put forward as to why the sponsor in the UK is unable to travel to the US to be with the applicant." Reeeeally?) But! He or she was doing her job. Now I need to know where I could go from here.
It's up to you to prove it, not her to work it out. One of the things you have to show is why you are choosing to settle in the UK instead of the US. If there is a reason why the sponsor can't go to the US, it needs to be explained in the application.
For example:
- he has children in the UK to take care of
- he has a stable job in the UK, while you might not be able to support him in the US
- he is not legally allowed to enter the US for some reason (i.e. an immigration ban or criminal convictions)
Having said that, this is probably just an extra thing they tacked on to support their refusal.
- The real, main reason for the refusal will be the lack of required financial documentation.
- The next, follow-up reason will be the lack of relationship evidence.
Question 1. The end of the letter suggests I could appeal with an attached IAFT-6 form, which they did not attach. Looking it up online, it appears I can only appeal on human rights grounds, which seems an unlikely path since I'm applying from a beacon of hope and freedom. Can I appeal in this way? And if so, is it better to do that, or simply reapply? I have seen horror stories of months/years of appeal limbo.
Don't waste your time appealing. An appeal can take up to a year to be processed and chances are it won't be successful anyway.
The only times appeals are successful are usually when you provided every single required document and the ECO in Sheffield overlooked them and made a mistake in refusing the visa. Because you didn't include a fair amount of the required documentation, and you can't normally add extra documents, an appeal is very unlikely to be approved.
Your best option would be to gather all the correct documents this time, check and double-check you have addressed every reason for refusal, and then just apply again. You could have your visa in a few weeks that way, instead of potentially battling an appeal for up to a year.
Question 2. Can I please have a lawyer? Doing these forms and putting this all together by myself has been terrifying, it didn't end well, and if I'm going to be another $1600 in the hole, I'd at least like a second pair of eyes to make sure I'm not going to just get my heart broken again by some other ECO.
Since your refusal was only based on a lack of documents, you still don't really need a lawyer. We can help you work out exactly what documents were missing and what you need to send this time to get an approval, without you needing a lawyer.
It's not like you don't qualify for the visa and need a lawyer to argue your case, it's simply that you didn't include all the documents to show it. So as long as you send all the required documents next time, there should be no reason to be refused.
If you do want to use a lawyer, we only recommend two on the forum:
1) Laura Devine, based in NYC and London
2) Medivisas, based in London
However, they are expensive and will set you back several hundred pounds... and we can give you all the help and advice you need in order to send the correct documents for free here on the forum.
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If it helps, this is my basic list of all the documentation you need to send in order to get a visa approval:
Applicant (US citizen)- Printed online application form
- Completed VAF4a Appendix 2 form
- Stamped Biometrics Confirmation Sheet (when you have attended the biometrics appointment)
- 2 passport photos (they can be US size (2 inches by 2 inches) or UK size (45 mm by 35 mm, which is 1.77 inches by 1.38 inches))
- Your passport
- All of your previous passports
- Optional cover letter
- Proposed flight itinerary
- Receipt for priority processing (if paying for priority)
- Return shipping packaging/details
Sponsor (UK citizen)- Certified copy of his UK passport photo page
- Sponsor letter of support for the visa, stating:
1) how he is eligible to sponsor the visa (his UK citizenship),
2) how he meets the financial requirement (which category),
3) where you will live in the UK (accommodation details),
4) a brief history of your relationship (no more than 1 paragraph, including why you are choosing to live in the UK instead of the US)
5) a list of all the documents he is including in the application package to meet the requirements he has detailed in the letter
AccommodationIf he owns:
- his land registry document
- his latest original mortgage statement
OR
If he rents:
- Original tenancy agreement
- A letter from his landlord giving you permission to live there
OR
If you are staying with family/friends:
- a letter from the homeowner giving you permission to live there and stating that the home will not be overcrowded
- the homeowner's land registry document (can be downloaded from here for a small fee:
https://www.gov.uk/government/organisations/land-registry)
- the homeowner's latest mortgage statement
FinancesCategory A:
- 6 months of original payslips showing at least £1,550 per month before tax on each one
- 6 months of original bank statements showing the deposit of every payslip
- letter from his current employer stating how long he has worked there, his current salary, how long he's been earning that current salary, the type of employment
- his original job contract
- his latest P60
Relationship evidence (in order of importance)
- marriage certificate
- 1 or 2 photos of you together (i.e. one at the wedding and one earlier in the relationship)
- boarding passes from trips to see each other
- any physical letters and cards sent to each other
- 1-2 pages of screenshots of your email inbox showing a selection of emails (subject line and date only) sent to each other through the course of your relationship - especially covering the time since your wedding.
- 1-2 pages of screenshots of your Skype/Whatsapp call logs showing a selection of calls to each other through the course of your relationship - especially covering the time since your wedding.
- 1-2 pages of screenshots of IM messages (preferably without any message content shown)
For the emails/calls/messages, you just need to show a selection covering the entire relationship. So if you've been together since 2010, you'll probably want to show evidence of communication at least once every 1-2 months for 6 years (i.e. select 12 emails/calls/messages per year and paste them together on a couple of sheets of paper)