Perhaps I read this wrong - the husband is from the UK, so no visa required?
$155k salary, if taxed in the UK means close to GBP 50k deduction income tax / NI at current exchange rate, paid monthly. I'm assuming no UK expenses to set off against the UK tax liability - usually, there's be 10k to 20k of these, and pensions.
No health care premiums.
No state tax.
There are local rates... say GBP 2k p.a.
Useful possibility of clocking up two state pensions. Actually, four.
Very roughly 1 USD spent on food and utilities = 1 GBP on same in UK.
The US company would eventually have to set up UK NI payments, payable monthly at 13.8% (GBP 16k). There's an initial period where they don't if the 'secondment' (if that's what it is) is classed as temporary.
I'm not sure I would easily go along with forming a self employment (or company) and billing the company. Take into account pension rights and stock options, and tax deductible expenses for travel to and from UK.
In my view, there is significant value in talking first to a cross border planner / tax planner if you're going ahead, to help you take advantage of some unique tax breaks, and work through the investment management considerations.
GBP 6K per month is what you'd probably end up with. I guess a very nice house in Scotland will cost GBP 500-750k. University fees in Scotland - free.
I think US tax rates will probably decline, short term, UK ones will rise short, medium and long term, slowly.
Most UK US cross border clients prefer to retire in the US, some choose London, some prefer France for sun and healthcare, some are heading off to South Africa.