We are in the UK for the third year in a row due to work commitments/changes. Ugh. Neither of us British so no family here, but we spend the day at various points calling forward to his or backwards to mine.
Breakfast: We have mimosas and coffee, bacon, scrambled eggs and share a small pannettone. About this time we get some glogg going in the crockpot.
Cocktail hour will consist of some US cheddar we brought back, elk sausage his mother sent, raw veg, herring for him
For dinner this year I said no to another Beef Wellington because I wanted ham, so we are going Swedish Christmas with German American twist:
Swedish oven baked ham (Swede had to go to the special shop as soon as the shipment arrived because the first shipment sold out in three hours but now we have the one and only ham type that is acceptable to him. He does NOT do spiral cut or that weird gammon rump style here)
Christmas meatballs (not sauced, 50/50 pork/beef mix) with lingonberry jam
Rotkohl
Kale and Apple salad with poppy seed dressing
Potatoes au Gratin
Aquavit to wash it all down
Special krispbrod that is only made for Christmas
Dessert I usually put out some gingerbread cookies, a few nice chocolates, satsumas etc on a plate. Then we open gifts and watch Die Hard.
The day after and after that and after that will be ham sandwiches on the special bread his mother made and arrived two weekends ago with his sister.
Thanks for the mexika link - I forgot about them! Grew up in the US SW and looked up making my own tamales for Xmas Eve - think I would rather buy them!

I have to say it is so freeing to not feel obliged to make a damn turkey dinner at any point in the year! Can't say I have missed it once since we moved.