Hello! I've recently come to England for an extended visit, and I've received a very tentative/preliminary job offer. Incidentally, I've also met someone special.
I've hesitated to post here, despite being very grateful for all the information I've found, in case UK Immigration watches these boards.
I legitimately came here on holiday, and I had absolutely zero intention of or interest in living here long-term. But, as I'm sure some of others know in this forum, things change. Now, I'm dealing with a whole host of questions and no one with any answers.
My biggest immediate problem is that I entered England via Dublin (Thanks, Aer Lingus! Totally not worth saving the $100 or so in fares to fly with you) and don't have the UK entry stamp. I've tried calling UKVI (if that's right, the immigration helpline) many, many times. I either get someone who can't even understand my question, or I wait on hold for 60+ minutes only to get disconnected.
My immediate issue is that I'd like to change my flight so I can stay longer (but within limits allowed by immigration, obviously). I cannot get any definitive answer whether entry through Dublin without a visa absolutely limits me to a 90 day stay, or if I get the 6 month period for US citizens who are visiting. UKCISA is the only one that I've found, and it says 90 days. But since that is for students, I don't know whether it's the legitimate authority on immigration matters?
http://www.ukcisa.org.uk/Information--Advice/Visas-and-Immigration/Arriving-via-Ireland"If, despite the above advice, you do enter the UK from the Republic of Ireland with no specific UK immigration permission, and you are a non-visa visa national, you will in most cases automatically have permission to be in the UK only for three months, not for six months."
But it says "may" and "in most cases."
Despite hours spent trying to contact immigration/Border Force, I can't get anyone to pick up the phone and talk to me. (This was before Christmas, by the way, so I don't think they would have been closed for the holidays.)
I probably sound completely noobish, but as I said I only intended to come for a holiday visit and then return home. And since I hope to apply for a long-term visa in the future, I'm terrified of making a rookie mistake that will get me banned permanently from the EU.
And, since I have to pay each time I change my return flight, I don't want to play it safe (book a flight for the end of three months) and find out I could have stayed longer.
I've asked British citizens around me, but as they haven't lived abroad they don't have any experience with immigration. In desperation I asked at the local church I've been attending, but they told me (before Christmas) to contact them again after the holidays.
So, here's my immediate question:
Is 90 days the definitive, absolute limit for staying if you've (stupidly and without any prior warning) entered England via Dublin and without a visa?
If so, does 90 days include the day of arrival and departure? (I'm asking, not to be nitpicky, but because the 90th day is a Sunday and would be the most expensive day to book a flight.)
Is it worth paying the premium phone number to try to get answers from UKVI? It's a lot of money for no guarantee, and their free line has been a total waste of time.
I've read as many posts on the forum as I can that seemed relevant, but it's really difficult when there's no search function. I'm trying also to ask my question in a way that doesn't violate the warnings put up by the forum owners--hope this is general enough that it doesn't go against the terms.
Thank you in advance for any information/replies you can provide! I've been worrying about this for two weeks with no idea where to turn for help.