I never received a confirmation email it had been received though. However, I received an email this morning that a decision had been made and a second email with tracking (we paid for round-trip courier but not priority).
Don't worry, not everyone receives the confirmation email - the 'decision made' and tracking emails are the important ones
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I explained multiple times why there was such a gap between between the marriage and my application.
Really, there's no need to explain multiple times. Just explain it once and include evidence of regular contact while you have been apart (which it sounds like you did)
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The only thing I'm nervous about is that we didn't immediately file for the visa because of my mom, which I explained in like 3 different places.
That really isn't an issue at all and as long as you show regular contact between you, since the wedding, it won't affect the application in any way.
Some people have had to spend years apart after getting married, because they haven't been able to qualify for the visa right away and have had to wait until they meet the requirements.
The only requirements are that you are legally married and that your relationship is genuine (shown by providing your marriage certificate and evidence of regular contact).
I'm afraid to be too hopeful but I feel in my bones I've been approved. Going by how long it took them to get my application I expect my package back Monday. This will be the longest weekend of my life!
In general, the faster the decision, the more likely it's an approval
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It sounds like non-priority applications are being processed really quickly right now too (you're the second person to have a decision in less than a week)
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