and my final update...
Married in NYC: January 6th
Online Application Date: January 29
Biometrics in VT: February 16th.
Application Posted: February 17th. (estimated arrival by 12 pm on Monday)
Got email saying application in... but docs hadn't been received February 18th
Documents arrived: February 20th at 8:15 am
Decision Email: February 24th
Received APPROVED visa: February 27th
They gave me a date of April 20th -May 20th, my original date was the 27th of April, we had already booked the flight with BA air miles so I think we are just going to keep that. Weird thing, and I know someone mentioned this as well before, but my letter is dated for the 22nd of February, which is 2 days before I got my decision email.
Thank you so much everyone for all of your help. I don't think I've ever been this happy. My husband is currently on a flight for work and I cant even share!!!!
Now crossing my fingers for Ricks and Mrs Mole's approvals!!!!