Ooooh, I really miss my garden, reading these posts! Granted, it wasn't a lot - just a small plot on a vacant lot, but I really enjoyed myself there. I was hoping to be able to get into an allotment here but there's an 8 year waiting list, and I doubt we'll be in the same flat in 8 years (if we get to stay in the UK) so there's no sense even paying the "sign up" fee.

Maybe someday when the kid is through school I can live in a house in in the country.

In the meantime, the daughter has bought some miniature roses on sale from Waitrose. Since then, we have been through: fungus gnats (solved by putting a layer of aquarium substrate down on the surface, as a barrier to the soil); aphids (came in on an herb plant I picked up at Dobbies, I think); and, now, spider mites. I'm still fighting the aphids on my garlic chives (don't want to use a systemic, so am using the insecticidal soap spray that I can wash off) but that stuff hasn't done much for the spider mites on the roses.
Got some spray for roses at Dobbies that is supposedly systemic, but it says to not use it more than a few times a year. The spider mites are back for their third 'round in two months now, and we're losing the leaves on the little plants, so I'm thinking it's not going to be effective. Have another set of mini-roses that I separated to another part of the house (more windowsill light) and they are coming back just fine. But the ones in the kitchen are having continual bouts of mites. Any ideas for how to get rid of the damned things? I feel so sorry for the roses, they're kind of just sticks with the odd leaf here and there now.