He's ok though, just withdrawn? Maybe you could check in with one of his friends, just to check that it's nothing worse than that?
i’ve got friends checking in on him. he’ll be ok, he’s just not online or anything right now. doesn’t want to deal with the mass of “are you ok” messages rolling in
same thing happened right after he found his dad. didn’t go online for weeks. i don’t have a phone right now (i live so far in the woods that we don’t really get service so it’s a waste... our internet we got cause the head of the company lives out here too, so we lucked out there).
it’s actually the reason we got together tho. i was the sole caretaker of my grandfather (my best friend since birth). watched him die a terrible death, so when fiancé lost his dad so terribly, nobody else really understood. i did. we bonded over that. so i understand why he’s so withdrawn and not talking right now. it’ll be ok.