Okay, UKY - it is finally time for my now husband and I to gather ourselves and apply for the spouse visa so I can settle with my husband in the UK! It’s a huge relief to finally be at this point, and while we are both excited to be this close to the end of our time apart, we are both quite nervous about the complexities of the visa process and want to do all we can to hopefully gain an approval.
So, instead of creating multi threads with questions, I thought it was best to start one thread now to fill with whatever questions we have. I cringe at the idea of bothering or annoying people with questions, but then I remember the total cost of the visa and really don’t want to pay those fees twice, so I shall suck up my anxiety and run the risk of sounding annoying or neurotic.
So, my first question is regarding paying the fees. At the rate we are going half the fees will be paid by me and half will be paid by him. My concern is regarding my bank smacking me with international transaction fees. I’ve noticed these annoying little fees crop up when I order something from a UK-based company to be sent to my husband, like through Moonpig or a similar outfit. Has anyone else had issues with fees after paying for the visa application, IHS, priority processing fee, or the VFS round-trip shipping?
And last question for today, as I am helping my husband write his sponsor letter, I am unsure what should be listed as our reason for choosing to reside in the UK over the US. There are a variety of reasons between the healthcare, the education system and overall lifestyle for our family and future children, the fact that I love the UK and feel very comfortable and at home there even though I’ve been there for such a short time, and the noticeably shorter wait time for an answer on a visa compared to the US. Obviously, we want to tell UKVI what they want to hear, so I wasn’t sure what would be acceptable to list because surely “Trump is terrifying please let me out” isn’t good enough reason to grant a spouse visa.
That’s all I have for now. Undoubtedly more questions will crop up as we continue to gather documentation, so I’ll post them here. Thanks in advance for the help! We feel so lucky to have found UKY because otherwise we might have gotten nervous to the point of hiring an attorney/solicitor to help apply, and we have seen how that pans out for some!