Wow okay.
How do you guys deal with the wait because I’m am not coping well at all.
I'm just about halfway through getting to the point where I'm hoping for some news (standard application, 30BD on Monday), and, yes, it's not easy. Some days, I just feel sick to the stomach.
Thankfully, work is quite busy at the moment, so that helps takes my mind off of things.
I think forums like this are great. There are plenty of knowledgeable folks here, and you can also find other people in the same boat as you.
One bit of advice - and this is based upon reading posts from other forums, not this one - is that you see someone start a 'I've been rejected' thread, *DON'T* click on it. Invariably, you walk away from it convinced that the same is going to happen to you. If curiousity really gets the better of you, don't take anything you read as definitive unless you see the full text of the rejection letter. The 'ImmigrationBoard' forum is terrible for this. There you get folks claiming they were rejected due to something petty - such as discrepency with a date - only then to find out that they also didn't submit proof of meeting the English Language Requirement (mandatory for folk from non-English speaking countries) and, in one case, that their marriage certificate was a forgery.
I really don't believe that UKVI is out to reject people for minor issues if the rest of the application holds together. They'd just be creating extra work for themselves.
But, aside from that, it's best to think that each passing day represents one day less that you have to wait.