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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #60 on: July 05, 2018, 01:31:45 PM »
Another thing that many expats/immigrants find frustrating, is that everyone in the USA will think you are living a high roller life and should be able to afford anything and everything.  Some random person is getting married, well then - you and your entire family need to fly back for it no matter the cost or timing!

Some people even think we live in medieval castles!   :o

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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #61 on: July 05, 2018, 01:40:19 PM »
Some people even think we live in medieval castles!   :o

heheh

You mean you don't!? I thought we ALL had one!
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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #62 on: July 05, 2018, 01:42:28 PM »
Some people even think we live in medieval castles!   :o

heheh

Amber, I'm convinced JF lives in a giant medieval castle reminiscent of Beauty and the Beast.  She denies this but I know it's all lies.

I'm also convinced Larabee is a super famous Hollywood actress who likes to hang out with us.


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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #63 on: July 05, 2018, 02:35:20 PM »
I'm also convinced Larabee is a super famous Hollywood actress who likes to hang out with us.

Busted!  8)


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Re: Show of hands...
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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #65 on: July 05, 2018, 02:58:33 PM »
Amber, I'm convinced JF lives in a giant medieval castle reminiscent of Beauty and the Beast.  She denies this but I know it's all lies.

I'm also convinced Larabee is a super famous Hollywood actress who likes to hang out with us.

Busted!  8)

hehehe!  I knew it!  I mean, I suspected it.  But you're also so down to earth, I thought I must be wrong.  ;)

In winter, my house feels like a medieval castle, if that counts.  So cold.  But maybe we'll have heat this winter.   *hopeful*
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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #66 on: July 05, 2018, 03:04:37 PM »
KFDancer, your house must be a giant estate house too because you've got a laundry room.  You must obviously have maids that help you with that.  You know, very Downton Abbey.

(Shh, I've got a great utility room too, with my washing machine in it)
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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #67 on: July 05, 2018, 03:36:48 PM »
Did I tell you guys that my wife's grandparents had a proper medieval castle in their back yard in France?  Most of the stones had been removed over the years to build other houses, but it still had a moat, some walls and stairs and even slits for shooting arrows. 
When they died it was sold for just a few hundred thousand euros.


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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #68 on: July 05, 2018, 03:41:03 PM »
KFDancer, your house must be a giant estate house too because you've got a laundry room.  You must obviously have maids that help you with that.  You know, very Downton Abbey.


It is big for the UK - a whole 1200 square feet!  We won't talk about the price tag....  OUCH!


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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #69 on: July 05, 2018, 03:41:45 PM »
Did I tell you guys that my wife's grandparents had a proper medieval castle in their back yard in France?  Most of the stones had been removed over the years to build other houses, but it still had a moat, some walls and stairs and even slits for shooting arrows. 
When they died it was sold for just a few hundred thousand euros.

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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #70 on: July 05, 2018, 03:55:32 PM »
This is extremely good advice.

When you get down to it, we all get up in the morning and go to work to pay the bills.  Life is not sexier here nor there.  It’s all in what suits you and your family best.
I would say in that regard its even harder here. Not enough companies embrace remote work and it's often a long commute to offices. With traffic mine is over and hour and I keep being told its "not that bad". My arms keep going numb from the drive, not that bad my a$$.


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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #71 on: July 05, 2018, 04:09:49 PM »
I would say in that regard its even harder here. Not enough companies embrace remote work and it's often a long commute to offices. With traffic mine is over and hour and I keep being told its "not that bad". My arms keep going numb from the drive, not that bad my a$$.

Unfortunately all the road works in the area aren't helping ease the traffic...Some days can be much easier than others but the traffic has been RUBBISH as of late.
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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #72 on: July 05, 2018, 07:58:13 PM »
Neither of us is British and yet we moved here because it was something we both wanted to do, at least for a little while. Like 5-7 years little while, and then move on, but retain the possibility to always come back.

I don't regret moving here, and I came knowing it would be hard to get back on our feet and the like. We've had some amazing experiences, met some great people, and done all sorts of cool stuff. I really like the weather (except the heat), and its great for Other Half and his career. We go out to a lot of shows, try new food, shop all sorts of places people would die to have access to on a regular basis, and generally do a good job entertaining ourselves :)

I wouldn't mind staying, but since the referendum you wonder at the future. We are in prime earning years with no kids and the salaries here just don't cut it, and the loss in the £ since 2016 has been rough. To us there is an undercurrent of just being tolerated and it is hard to feel stable when you don't even know what your immigration status is going to be in a year (even if its fine, I don't trust that old bag in Number 10). The future now feels rather bleak here, and I can remember when I first came to work in 1997 how it seemed like anything was possible and people were engaged.  I don't like the "banter" at a certain level, or the passing off of cutting remarks as "just a joke", nor do I like the rampant class system and barriers that presents (could be more affected by this due to being in London and what I do for work).

And finally, I REALLY hate the football supporters and am truly dreading Saturday afternoon. Other Half will accept if Sweden lose, but he won't accept England fans taunting him non-stop - and that includes his work buddies and our old friend back in Minneapolis.


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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #73 on: July 05, 2018, 09:39:53 PM »

And finally, I REALLY hate the football supporters and am truly dreading Saturday afternoon. Other Half will accept if Sweden lose, but he won't accept England fans taunting him non-stop - and that includes his work buddies and our old friend back in Minneapolis.

If it helps you feel better about it, my husband and I (he's Brit so would probably be shot for saying this out loud) actively want England to lose. We're just over it hahaha
My, how time flies....

* Married in the US and applied for first spousal visa August 2013
* Moved to the UK on said visa October 2013
* FLR(M) applied for  May 2016. Biometrics requested June 2016. Approval given July 2016.
* ILR applied for January 2019 (using priority processing). Approved February 2019.
* Citizenship applied for May  2019
* Citizenship approved on July 4th 2019
* Ceremony conducted on August 28th 2019

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Re: Show of hands...
« Reply #74 on: July 05, 2018, 09:46:59 PM »
If it helps you feel better about it, my husband and I (he's Brit so would probably be shot for saying this out loud) actively want England to lose. We're just over it hahaha

Hey!  :o


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