I reached out to her via PM to tell her we are here to help with the refusal.
She said she has an interview tomorrow and is told she'll likely be allowed in for 30 days to attend the party. So I guess the media attention worked. As UKVI realise "she doesn't fit the profile of someone who would overstay".
She does seem wholly focused on the party and not on the refusal. She also said UKVI already owe them $5,000 for the last few days.
Told you she'd get in Sirius.
Of course she can ask again. If she had applied for a visitor visa after her spouse visa refusal, they would likely have let her in to visit, with enough evidence, as we have seen from others on here after they got a refusal. Then she could have turned up at the border with a visitor visa already in hand instead of taking the risk.
Turning up at the border after a refusal, was a big risk as she found out. It's why UKVI recommend on their site, that non-visa nationals apply for a visitor visa after a refusal. Did she miss that?
Nothing to do with her going to the papers as she can try again. Even the US Embassy website has a page telling their citizens they can't make the UK let them in to visit.
Everything for spouse visas and visiting are on the website and those who follow these directions don't have a problem. Even under the comments section, an immigrant to the UK told her they had never a problem. If she thinks the UK owes her money, then it seems she still doesn't understand where she keeps going wrong?