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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #195 on: August 08, 2018, 04:18:25 PM »
Quote from: TeamTollie on August 08, 2018, 04:04:36 PM
Awhh you guys <3 <3

Yes. Communication is SO important. I'm kind of the opposite....my previous relationship made me so annoyed that I just started saying everything out loud. Now, Tom has to deal with my bluntness haha! But I think it's done so much good.

You guys are so sweet!

Both he and I agreed because I the way I grew up and in my previous marriage it will take some time to  relearn the communications and opening up more but last night was a big step forward and I know, I am safe and I know I can speak my mind and be more open with him. Like I said earlier, I knew I could before but I didn't want to appear "weak". I wanted to appear "strong"
We will become stronger and have a better relationship because now I know I don't always have to be "brave"
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #196 on: August 08, 2018, 04:41:25 PM »
Quote from: TimCypher on August 08, 2018, 04:08:08 PM
Oh sorry, I posted it in the non-priority thread.

The visa was approved!  :)

Never felt so relieved about anything in my life...

Still feels like I’m living in a dream.

Best of luck with your application, TeamTollie!  :)

YAY!!! Bounces up and down for you!!!!  Enjoy your new life with your wife!!! :D
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #197 on: August 08, 2018, 04:43:27 PM »
Quote from: MovingtoWales on August 08, 2018, 04:18:25 PM
Both he and I agreed because I the way I grew up and in my previous marriage it will take some time to  relearn the communications and opening up more but last night was a big step forward and I know, I am safe and I know I can speak my mind and be more open with him. Like I said earlier, I knew I could before but I didn't want to appear "weak". I wanted to appear "strong"
We will become stronger and have a better relationship because now I know I don't always have to be "brave"

I'm so glad about this. It's important to constantly grow with your partner, but also nurture each other as times change. And I'm happy that he's understanding and kind!! Being emotional is definitely not a weakness, and it's so healthy that you two both recognize that, esp since the next few months will be a change for you both!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #198 on: August 08, 2018, 04:44:27 PM »
Quote from: TimCypher on August 08, 2018, 04:08:08 PM
Oh sorry, I posted it in the non-priority thread.

The visa was approved!  :)

Never felt so relieved about anything in my life...

Still feels like I’m living in a dream.

Best of luck with your application, TeamTollie!  :)
YAY!!! Congratulations!!!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #199 on: August 08, 2018, 04:50:31 PM »
Quote from: TeamTollie on August 08, 2018, 04:43:27 PM
I'm so glad about this. It's important to constantly grow with your partner, but also nurture each other as times change. And I'm happy that he's understanding and kind!! Being emotional is definitely not a weakness, and it's so healthy that you two both recognize that, esp since the next few months will be a change for you both!
Agreed.
I realize it more now after last nights conversation. :D
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #200 on: August 08, 2018, 04:52:21 PM »
Yes, you both need to be each other’s soft place to fall.
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #201 on: August 08, 2018, 07:17:32 PM »
I've definitely got the mopes today! I was fine this morning but it's gotten progressively worse.
On top of that I am PMSing (sorry for the overshare) and haven't had a single cup of coffee all day  :\\\'( :\\\'( :\\\'(

The anxiety is real, ya'll.
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #202 on: August 08, 2018, 07:21:05 PM »
Quote from: TeamTollie on August 08, 2018, 07:17:32 PM
I've definitely got the mopes today! I was fine this morning but it's gotten progressively worse.
On top of that I am PMSing (sorry for the overshare) and haven't had a single cup of coffee all day  :\\\'( :\\\'( :\\\'(

The anxiety is real, ya'll.

OH NO!!!! NO COFFEE!!! I AM ON MY WAY...LOL

No worries about sharing...We all go through that fun time of the month... ??? :o ::)
You know how I was yesterday... Let it out...let it go... We are all here for you. Virtual Hug
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #203 on: August 08, 2018, 07:23:41 PM »
WOOHOO!!! Off topic...but you know you lost your mind completely when your status in the group changed from Neophyte to Groupie and you are jumping up and down for joy.... HELP ME PLEASE!!! ;D :D ;D :D
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #204 on: August 08, 2018, 07:36:06 PM »
Quote from: MovingtoWales on August 08, 2018, 07:23:41 PM
WOOHOO!!! Off topic...but you know you lost your mind completely when your status in the group changed from Neophyte to Groupie and you are jumping up and down for joy.... HELP ME PLEASE!!! ;D :D ;D :D

I got really exited about Overlord!  ;D
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #205 on: August 08, 2018, 07:37:14 PM »
Quote from: larrabee on August 08, 2018, 07:36:06 PM
I got really exited about Overlord!  ;D


OOOO....I want that one...When do I get that label...LOL!!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #206 on: August 08, 2018, 07:42:46 PM »
Quote from: MovingtoWales on August 08, 2018, 07:37:14 PM

OOOO....I want that one...When do I get that label...LOL!!

Jimbocz is one at the moment and he has 4215 so it's probably 4,000+

Keep posting!  :)
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #207 on: August 08, 2018, 07:44:31 PM »
Quote from: larrabee on August 08, 2018, 07:42:46 PM
Jimbocz is one at the moment and he has 4215 so it's probably 4,000+

Keep posting!  :)

Awe....I might have to post one letter posts for a while...Might get annoying....LOL ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #208 on: August 08, 2018, 07:47:21 PM »
Quote from: MovingtoWales on August 08, 2018, 07:44:31 PM
Awe....I might have to post one letter posts for a while...Might get annoying....LOL ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Just stick around and it'll happen eventually!  :)
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #209 on: August 08, 2018, 08:07:08 PM »
Quote from: larrabee on August 08, 2018, 07:47:21 PM
Just stick around and it'll happen eventually!  :)
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I think it's been updated a bit since this but this is what it used to be:

Newbie 0
Newcomer  1
Neophyte 25
Groupie  100
Junkie  250
GoldMember  500
Guru  1000
Swami  2000
Jedi  3000
Overlord 4000
Ambassador  5000
Maestro  6000
I Live Here!  7500


10,000 is Expert now
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