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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #285 on: August 10, 2018, 05:02:19 PM »
They had one of those in Cardiff and I just fell in love....I honestly felt like I was in a magical dream. The entire time in Wales, I was in awe. God I miss it there.. Sigh

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #286 on: August 10, 2018, 05:04:51 PM »
Not long now! Each day is one day closer.  :)

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #287 on: August 10, 2018, 05:22:19 PM »
They had one of those in Cardiff and I just fell in love....I honestly felt like I was in a magical dream. The entire time in Wales, I was in awe. God I miss it there.. Sigh

Cardiff would be an awesome neetup location... ;)
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #288 on: August 10, 2018, 05:24:20 PM »
I want to see the castle and Dr Who stuff there.
Cardiff would be an awesome neetup location... ;)

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #289 on: August 10, 2018, 05:28:08 PM »
I want to see the castle and Dr Who stuff there.
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Nathan and I call Caerphilly Castle "our castle".  Caerphilly castle has dragons :) Plus thats where we live.. Or where he lives and where I will be living in a couple weeks....Crossing fingers.
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #290 on: August 10, 2018, 05:29:26 PM »
Nathan and I call Caerphilly Castle "our castle".  Caerphilly castle has dragons :) Plus thats where we live.. Or where he lives and where I will be living in a couple weeks....Crossing fingers.
I know someone that lives there.

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #291 on: August 10, 2018, 05:31:32 PM »
I know someone that lives there.

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It is such a cute village/town.  I have a picture of me with the dragons and they have a tower that is leaning and they have a statue of a man holding the tower up and me trying to help...If I could figure out how to post pictures I would show you all
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #292 on: August 10, 2018, 05:33:44 PM »
It is such a cute village/town.  I have a picture of me with the dragons and they have a tower that is leaning and they have a statue of a man holding the tower up and me trying to help...If I could figure out how to post pictures I would show you all
Download the Tapatalk app. You can easily share pictures that way.

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #293 on: August 10, 2018, 05:47:05 PM »
I'm so done. I don't even know what to do anymore. I'm at the point where waiting is just unbearable. I know I have it better than most people as it's ~only~ been 4.5 months since I've seen my husband... but this is so difficult. I just graduated university and have nothing else to look forward to in the states besides getting my visa.

 I feel like I'm never going to get this visa. It's been 38 business days with a pretty straightforward application. I even got an email 2 days ago saying that it was in its "final stages". Wtf does that even mean. I just need some encouragement before I go crazy!!


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #294 on: August 10, 2018, 05:48:02 PM »
Caerphilly castle with dragons leaning tower and me

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #295 on: August 10, 2018, 05:48:48 PM »
WOOHOO!!! IT WORKED....LOL
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #296 on: August 10, 2018, 05:53:56 PM »
Maybe we can all meet up in London and explore all day!! And stuff our faces on pub food!

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.Cardiff would be an awesome neetup location... ;)

There is nothing else for it, you guys are going to have to do a tour of the country to fit us all in!   ;D


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #297 on: August 10, 2018, 05:57:18 PM »
I'm so done. I don't even know what to do anymore. I'm at the point where waiting is just unbearable. I know I have it better than most people as it's ~only~ been 4.5 months since I've seen my husband... but this is so difficult. I just graduated university and have nothing else to look forward to in the states besides getting my visa.

 I feel like I'm never going to get this visa. It's been 38 business days with a pretty straightforward application. I even got an email 2 days ago saying that it was in its "final stages". Wtf does that even mean. I just need some encouragement before I go crazy!!

We have all been right where you are right now. We know this horrible little feeling. Try to remain strong and try to keep positive. You will get through this.  And you will get your Visa and when you do you will get to look back and it will be a faded memory.
Met the other half of my Heart- May 2017
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #298 on: August 10, 2018, 06:07:52 PM »
I'm so done. I don't even know what to do anymore. I'm at the point where waiting is just unbearable. I know I have it better than most people as it's ~only~ been 4.5 months since I've seen my husband... but this is so difficult. I just graduated university and have nothing else to look forward to in the states besides getting my visa.

 I feel like I'm never going to get this visa. It's been 38 business days with a pretty straightforward application. I even got an email 2 days ago saying that it was in its "final stages". Wtf does that even mean. I just need some encouragement before I go crazy!!

And also know, we are all here for you...To talk, to have a shoulder to cry  on...or to vent. We got your back!!!
Met the other half of my Heart- May 2017
Engaged 06 June 2018
Fiance Visa (Priority)
Application Submitted 08 June 2018
Biometrics and Supporting Docs Sent 11 June 2018
Decision Made Email: 14 August 2018  (42 BD)
Decision: APPROVED
Made it Home 27 Aug 2018
Married 17 Nov 2018
First FLR(M) non priority application : sent 11 Feb 2019
Decision made 26 March 2019
APPROVED!!!!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #299 on: August 10, 2018, 06:09:04 PM »
I'm so done. I don't even know what to do anymore. I'm at the point where waiting is just unbearable. I know I have it better than most people as it's ~only~ been 4.5 months since I've seen my husband... but this is so difficult. I just graduated university and have nothing else to look forward to in the states besides getting my visa.

 I feel like I'm never going to get this visa. It's been 38 business days with a pretty straightforward application. I even got an email 2 days ago saying that it was in its "final stages". Wtf does that even mean. I just need some encouragement before I go crazy!!

Exactly as MovingtoWales says. You won't even remember how awful the wait was and you will have a fun little story to share with your friends over dinner!  :)


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