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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #315 on: August 10, 2018, 08:01:25 PM »
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #316 on: August 10, 2018, 08:02:14 PM »
Today marks 40 BD for me. they are still playing catch up right now. We are at peak time in the season for visas. I'm seeing that about 40-45 BD's is about the normal time frame but it just all depends where in the queue you are. try and keep busy, just know that when your number is up and you get that pretty shiny sticker(visa) in your passport you will get to look back and share your stories and it will be a distant memory. 
We are here for you...anytime....:) you will get through this...You are with a great bunch of people who feel the same thing as you and no one will understand better than all this great people.

Aghhh, I know. I keep telling myself that it's still normal timing but it feels like I'll never hear back! Plus it's tough to keep busy when I have nothing much to do other than panic and watch Love Island hahaha.

But you're right, I know I'll forgot about this all once the visa arrives (we all will). I appreciate all the people in this thread so much. It feels so nice to talk about it without continually annoying my family and friends, lol.
FLR(M) Timeline:
Application type: Spouse settlement visa extension (super priority)
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #317 on: August 10, 2018, 08:03:37 PM »
On a more positive note, I just dropped off 4 bags of clothes to goodwill and I'm listing my car for sale right now! It feels so good to start decluttering and getting ready for the big move.
That being said I already miss my clothes and am not looking forward to sharing a small wardrobe with my husband. RIP walk-in closets. </3 LOL

What's going to be the hardest thing for you guys to get rid of?

I think the hardest for me will be my books. I'm bringing some of course (can't move to the UK without Harry Potter...), but I can't take 90% of them  :(  Plus just a bunch of tchotchkes, home decor, and things like that. Thing that make a home a home, you know?
FLR(M) Timeline:
Application type: Spouse settlement visa extension (super priority)
BRP expiration: Late May 2021
Online application submitted: April 14, 2021
Biometrics appointment: April 25, 2021
Decision made: April 26, 2021 - emailed at 1:40 pm


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #318 on: August 10, 2018, 08:03:53 PM »
Aghhh, I know. I keep telling myself that it's still normal timing but it feels like I'll never hear back! Plus it's tough to keep busy when I have nothing much to do other than panic and watch Love Island hahaha.

But you're right, I know I'll forgot about this all once the visa arrives (we all will). I appreciate all the people in this thread so much. It feels so nice to talk about it without continually annoying my family and friends, lol.

If it hadn't been for this forum, I think they would have already locked me up and threw away the key...LOL
Met the other half of my Heart- May 2017
Engaged 06 June 2018
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Biometrics and Supporting Docs Sent 11 June 2018
Decision Made Email: 14 August 2018  (42 BD)
Decision: APPROVED
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First FLR(M) non priority application : sent 11 Feb 2019
Decision made 26 March 2019
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #319 on: August 10, 2018, 08:06:27 PM »
Dave is adorable!!!!

Here's Spinelli, a spoiled princess.


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Met British Husband:October 20, 2013
Engaged: Oct 20, 2017
Married: May 18, 2018
Application Type: Settlement/Spouse Priority
Online application submitted: June 8, 2018
Biometrics appointment & Docs sent: June 12, 2018
Package arrived in Sheffield: June 14, 2018
Email stating my application was being prepared by ECO: June 14, 2018
Decision made email: August 14, 2018
Documents returned: August 16, 2018
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #320 on: August 10, 2018, 08:09:33 PM »
I think the hardest for me will be my books. I'm bringing some of course (can't move to the UK without Harry Potter...), but I can't take 90% of them  :(  Plus just a bunch of tchotchkes, home decor, and things like that. Thing that make a home a home, you know?
I'm kicking myself because I already sent my first 5 harry potter books home with my husband the last few times he's visited, and all i've been wanting to do lately is reread the series.
I can definitely relate!  I love my books and I have this vintage globe i love and i'm so sad I can't bring it.
Met British Husband:October 20, 2013
Engaged: Oct 20, 2017
Married: May 18, 2018
Application Type: Settlement/Spouse Priority
Online application submitted: June 8, 2018
Biometrics appointment & Docs sent: June 12, 2018
Package arrived in Sheffield: June 14, 2018
Email stating my application was being prepared by ECO: June 14, 2018
Decision made email: August 14, 2018
Documents returned: August 16, 2018
APPROVED!!!!!!!!

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #321 on: August 10, 2018, 08:12:33 PM »
Dave is adorable!!!!

Here's Spinelli, a spoiled princess.


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AWE!!!!!!!!!! LOOK AT THAT LIL CUTIE!!!
Met the other half of my Heart- May 2017
Engaged 06 June 2018
Fiance Visa (Priority)
Application Submitted 08 June 2018
Biometrics and Supporting Docs Sent 11 June 2018
Decision Made Email: 14 August 2018  (42 BD)
Decision: APPROVED
Made it Home 27 Aug 2018
Married 17 Nov 2018
First FLR(M) non priority application : sent 11 Feb 2019
Decision made 26 March 2019
APPROVED!!!!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #322 on: August 10, 2018, 08:14:18 PM »
Gorgeous pusses!  :D

Definitely make room for some keepsakes. It'll be more comforting than you realise to have something special that reminds you of home.  :)


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #323 on: August 10, 2018, 08:16:25 PM »
Gorgeous pusses!  :D

Definitely make room for some keepsakes. It'll be more comforting than you realise to have something special that reminds you of home.  :)
I'll be getting one of Dave and I pictures printed and framed and taking one of his toys with me....LOL
Met the other half of my Heart- May 2017
Engaged 06 June 2018
Fiance Visa (Priority)
Application Submitted 08 June 2018
Biometrics and Supporting Docs Sent 11 June 2018
Decision Made Email: 14 August 2018  (42 BD)
Decision: APPROVED
Made it Home 27 Aug 2018
Married 17 Nov 2018
First FLR(M) non priority application : sent 11 Feb 2019
Decision made 26 March 2019
APPROVED!!!!
I'm Home


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #324 on: August 10, 2018, 08:17:01 PM »
I'll be getting one of Dave and I pictures printed and framed and taking one of his toys with me....LOL

That's so perfect!  :D


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #325 on: August 10, 2018, 08:19:28 PM »
The day I fly home will be so conflicting of emotions...Sad but excited....But atleast I know he will be in good hands and my aunt and I will have weekly skype chats so I will still get to see him.
Met the other half of my Heart- May 2017
Engaged 06 June 2018
Fiance Visa (Priority)
Application Submitted 08 June 2018
Biometrics and Supporting Docs Sent 11 June 2018
Decision Made Email: 14 August 2018  (42 BD)
Decision: APPROVED
Made it Home 27 Aug 2018
Married 17 Nov 2018
First FLR(M) non priority application : sent 11 Feb 2019
Decision made 26 March 2019
APPROVED!!!!
I'm Home


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #326 on: August 10, 2018, 08:26:11 PM »
Everyone meet Dave.

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omg! Can you only upload photos from the app? Can I use my computer for that? I'll be contributing to cat photos once I get home...!!!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #327 on: August 10, 2018, 08:27:48 PM »
omg! Can you only upload photos from the app? Can I use my computer for that? I'll be contributing to cat photos once I get home...!!!

Not sure...BUT YAY!!!! MORE CUTE CRITTER PHOTOS!!!! :D :D :D
Met the other half of my Heart- May 2017
Engaged 06 June 2018
Fiance Visa (Priority)
Application Submitted 08 June 2018
Biometrics and Supporting Docs Sent 11 June 2018
Decision Made Email: 14 August 2018  (42 BD)
Decision: APPROVED
Made it Home 27 Aug 2018
Married 17 Nov 2018
First FLR(M) non priority application : sent 11 Feb 2019
Decision made 26 March 2019
APPROVED!!!!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #328 on: August 10, 2018, 08:29:05 PM »
Today marks 40 BD for me. they are still playing catch up right now. We are at peak time in the season for visas. I'm seeing that about 40-45 BD's is about the normal time frame but it just all depends where in the queue you are. try and keep busy, just know that when your number is up and you get that pretty shiny sticker(visa) in your passport you will get to look back and share your stories and it will be a distant memory. 
We are here for you...anytime....:) you will get through this...You are with a great bunch of people who feel the same thing as you and no one will understand better than all this great people.

I hate that you guys haven't received your e-mails yet  :-[ :-[ :-[

I was relieved and then I got all negative wondering why mine was sent before ya'lls, like "Was mine sent back faster because something was wrong with it?"

It's like even with the e-mail my mind found something else to stress over.
Really, really hoping you guys hear back soon and we can all breathe.

*chants* Sheffield Sheffield Sheffield! (I'm going to just put this on every post now)

Maybe my chants will help! I want us all to have an answer within the same week or so. Flurry!!!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #329 on: August 10, 2018, 08:32:22 PM »
The day I fly home will be so conflicting of emotions...Sad but excited....But atleast I know he will be in good hands and my aunt and I will have weekly skype chats so I will still get to see him.
Do you think you'll adopt another cat once your settled in Wales?
Met British Husband:October 20, 2013
Engaged: Oct 20, 2017
Married: May 18, 2018
Application Type: Settlement/Spouse Priority
Online application submitted: June 8, 2018
Biometrics appointment & Docs sent: June 12, 2018
Package arrived in Sheffield: June 14, 2018
Email stating my application was being prepared by ECO: June 14, 2018
Decision made email: August 14, 2018
Documents returned: August 16, 2018
APPROVED!!!!!!!!

Officially a UK Resident: September 3, 2018


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