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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #345 on: August 10, 2018, 08:53:19 PM »
It's been SO nice to have you guys! I feel like this thread created a little clique of June/July applications! We're all in the same anxiety boat!

I completely agree! We're like a little team, hahaha.

Also, I know it will be hectic times when we (fingers crossed) get our approvals, but I want to hear updates on everyone's journey to the UK and how you're all settling!  :)
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #346 on: August 10, 2018, 08:57:30 PM »
I completely agree! We're like a little team, hahaha.

Also, I know it will be hectic times when we (fingers crossed) get our approvals, but I want to hear updates on everyone's journey to the UK and how you're all settling!  :)
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #347 on: August 11, 2018, 04:38:47 AM »
Man I can't figure out how to add a photo :(
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #348 on: August 11, 2018, 05:29:19 AM »
Just now catching up on everyone's posts! I can't express how much better it makes me feel that I'm not alone in doing this! We are all going to get emails next week, I'm feeling it!!! And I'm also leaving my cat behind. It's going to be so hard but I think we're going to ship him over in December. He's a black and white tuxedo cat and like almost the best thing to happen to me hahaha. I'm such a cat lady


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #349 on: August 11, 2018, 06:28:27 AM »
Man I can't figure out how to add a photo :(

IIRC, if you use Tapatalk, you can use the 'choose file' function below and to the left of the text box to select one from your computer.


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #350 on: August 11, 2018, 07:46:28 AM »
I didn’t expect Dave to be white!  He’s gorgeous.  Definitely stick around a load lots of photos in the “cat lady for life” thread.   ;D


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #351 on: August 11, 2018, 09:43:00 AM »
Man I can't figure out how to add a photo :(

IIRC, if you use Tapatalk, you can use the 'choose file' function below and to the left of the text box to select one from your computer.

If you don't have tapatalk, you have two other options:

1.  For larger-than-1MB files, you can upload the photo to a hosting site (imgur, etc.) and use the img tag (click the button with the tiny Mona Lisa-looking icon on it) to turn the link into a picture.

2.  For less-than-1MB files, you can attach it using the attach option below the posting text box.  If you use this method, there will be a very small thumbnail at the end of your post that viewers will have to click on to see the image, but it means you don't need to use tapatalk or a photo upload site.
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #352 on: August 11, 2018, 03:35:43 PM »
I completely agree! We're like a little team, hahaha.

Also, I know it will be hectic times when we (fingers crossed) get our approvals, but I want to hear updates on everyone's journey to the UK and how you're all settling!  :)
You guys are keeping me sane! Well, sort of sane ;) This week has been one of the hardest,  lots of emotional breakdowns and feelings of dejection. I'm so glad we all have each other  :)

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #353 on: August 11, 2018, 03:54:18 PM »
You guys are keeping me sane! Well, sort of sane ;) This week has been one of the hardest,  lots of emotional breakdowns and feelings of dejection. I'm so glad we all have each other  :)

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I had a good emotional outburst a few days ago.  Time is going quick now that I look back but as the days come, they just seem to slow down. This whole separation from your loved ones and this being kept in the dark, Limbo is very unsettling. The only thing I want, I can't have. COME ON FLURRIES!!!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #354 on: August 11, 2018, 04:15:12 PM »
You guys are keeping me sane! Well, sort of sane ;) This week has been one of the hardest,  lots of emotional breakdowns and feelings of dejection. I'm so glad we all have each other  :)

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I liked for "you guys are keeping me sane!" not the other half of this comment!

I am so, so sorry you're having to wait so long. Being in limbo SUCKS! We're all here for you!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #355 on: August 11, 2018, 04:16:32 PM »


If you don't have tapatalk, you have two other options:

1.  For larger-than-1MB files, you can upload the photo to a hosting site (imgur, etc.) and use the img tag (click the button with the tiny Mona Lisa-looking icon on it) to turn the link into a picture.

2.  For less-than-1MB files, you can attach it using the attach option below the posting text box.  If you use this method, there will be a very small thumbnail at the end of your post that viewers will have to click on to see the image, but it means you don't need to use tapatalk or a photo upload site.

When I click "attachments and other options" it just does nothing! Am I not seeing the correct button? I want you guys to see my puuuurrrfect cat!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #356 on: August 11, 2018, 04:29:50 PM »
I liked for "you guys are keeping me sane!" not the other half of this comment!

I am so, so sorry you're having to wait so long. Being in limbo SUCKS! We're all here for you!
Thank you ♡ I think it's worse bc we have already had a refusal, so our emotions are definitely heightened to say the least!

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #357 on: August 11, 2018, 04:37:03 PM »
I find the weekends harder because nothing is getting done. No decisions being made, no ups updates. I honestly dread the weekends. Come on Monday. I can't believe i just said...I am actually looking forward to the weekend being over and monday to come...OH DEAR GOD....LOL
Met the other half of my Heart- May 2017
Engaged 06 June 2018
Fiance Visa (Priority)
Application Submitted 08 June 2018
Biometrics and Supporting Docs Sent 11 June 2018
Decision Made Email: 14 August 2018  (42 BD)
Decision: APPROVED
Made it Home 27 Aug 2018
Married 17 Nov 2018
First FLR(M) non priority application : sent 11 Feb 2019
Decision made 26 March 2019
APPROVED!!!!
I'm Home


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #358 on: August 11, 2018, 04:46:44 PM »
Thank you ♡ I think it's worse bc we have already had a refusal, so our emotions are definitely heightened to say the least!

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I can only imagine :(  sending so many good vibes your way!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #359 on: August 11, 2018, 04:47:34 PM »
I find the weekends harder because nothing is getting done. No decisions being made, no ups updates. I honestly dread the weekends. Come on Monday. I can't believe i just said...I am actually looking forward to the weekend being over and monday to come...OH DEAR GOD....LOL

SAME. It's like "the weekend yay!" but also not a business day lol!

ugh I want you guys to hear something next week. I mean ya'll HAVE to. It's getting into the 40-45BD range.
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