Yeah it's tricky - I think one if the reasons I've been struggling is seeing posts from people who have had multiple refusals and then had their tourist visa refused also....makes me discouraged and now I'm thinking the worst...
My dog is in England and I miss her terribly. Since I left she got diagnosed with a cancerous tumour and had to have it removed. She's 9-10, a 3-legged rescue dog, and my biggest fear when I leave is that something will happen and she will die thinking I've left her, not knowing I'm coming back...it makes the waiting even more stressful 
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Yeah, I see refusals and it gets me to question, did I put that in there, did I put enough in mine, is my folder organized enough... etc.
But I then try to get into my head, we did everything they requested plus some and try to keep positive and tell myself, I will have a Visa...I will have a Visa....I will go home to my fiance and we will be married in 3 months. I will get my Visa...No Negative thoughts...Stay out!!!!...LOL

How is her condition now? Try not to think like that...I do understand but just think of the reunion. When she sees you she will be, MOMMY MOMMY MOMMY MOMMY and jumping all over you. think of the happy reunion.
I am terrified to leave Dave behind but as I have said in previous posts, I know its best for him. I don't want him to forget about me and hate me for leaving him. I love him dearly and he has gotten me through some really difficult times. They become "your lil furbabies, family"