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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #360 on: August 11, 2018, 04:48:01 PM »
I can only imagine :(  sending so many good vibes your way!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #361 on: August 11, 2018, 04:52:28 PM »
SAME. It's like "the weekend yay!" but also not a business day lol!

ugh I want you guys to hear something next week. I mean ya'll HAVE to. It's getting into the 40-45BD range.

I am on a few facebook groups as well, of course they aren't as awesome as this group :) ;), but our timelines are getting approved..So I feel we will hear something this week...I just wish this week would hurry up....I'm not really in a downer mood just feeling a bit blah today.
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #362 on: August 11, 2018, 06:01:15 PM »
I'll be getting one of Dave and I pictures printed and framed and taking one of his toys with me....LOL
You should see if your vet can do a lil paw print for you. They usually have the putty on hand for the wee ones crossing the rainbow bridge, and I think they'd probably understand how difficult saying goodbye is.

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #363 on: August 11, 2018, 06:03:18 PM »
I am on a few facebook groups as well, of course they aren't as awesome as this group :) ;), but our timelines are getting approved..So I feel we will hear something this week...I just wish this week would hurry up....I'm not really in a downer mood just feeling a bit blah today.

Be careful of those facebook groups, the misinformation going on in some of them can be bad for the blood pressure!
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #364 on: August 11, 2018, 06:39:57 PM »
You should see if your vet can do a lil paw print for you. They usually have the putty on hand for the wee ones crossing the rainbow bridge, and I think they'd probably understand how difficult saying goodbye is.

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OMG That is a awesome idea!!! Thank you :D :D :D
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #365 on: August 11, 2018, 06:41:41 PM »
Be careful of those facebook groups, the misinformation going on in some of them can be bad for the blood pressure!
(So I hear!)

The past couple of days I have been debating on leaving them. I don't post and I have seen some questionable information going through. I do it more to see the decision emails and timelines.
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #366 on: August 11, 2018, 06:46:32 PM »
The past couple of days I have been debating on leaving them. I don't post and I have seen some questionable information going through. I do it more to see the decision emails and timelines.

OMG! I just joined some after you had said you were in some facebook groups. I haven't seen any posts yet, as you to submit a questionnaire to be in them. Which I thought was weird, but okay. But now that's you've said you considered leaving them... maybe they are weird haha!!


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #367 on: August 11, 2018, 06:47:04 PM »
The past couple of days I have been debating on leaving them. I don't post and I have seen some questionable information going through. I do it more to see the decision emails and timelines.
Yeah it's tricky  - I think one if the reasons I've been struggling is seeing posts from people who have had multiple refusals and then had their tourist visa refused also....makes me discouraged and now I'm thinking the worst...

My dog is in England and I miss her terribly. Since I left she got diagnosed with a cancerous tumour and had to have it removed. She's 9-10, a 3-legged rescue dog, and my biggest fear when I leave is that something will happen and she will die thinking I've left her,  not knowing I'm coming back...it makes the waiting even more stressful  :(

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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #368 on: August 11, 2018, 06:50:36 PM »
OMG! I just joined some after you had said you were in some facebook groups. I haven't seen any posts yet, as you to submit a questionnaire to be in them. Which I thought was weird, but okay. But now that's you've said you considered leaving them... maybe they are weird haha!!

I thought it was a good idea when I first joined because information wise, but the last couple of days I have noticed some discrepancies in peoples information and some mis-informations...Nothing huge, just some people don't know what they are talking about...They guess.
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #369 on: August 11, 2018, 06:52:24 PM »
OMG! I just joined some after you had said you were in some facebook groups. I haven't seen any posts yet, as you to submit a questionnaire to be in them. Which I thought was weird, but okay. But now that's you've said you considered leaving them... maybe they are weird haha!!
I thought the little questionnaries were a bit odd but at the same time I thought they were being protective over the groups because of the scammers....
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #370 on: August 11, 2018, 07:00:54 PM »
Yeah it's tricky  - I think one if the reasons I've been struggling is seeing posts from people who have had multiple refusals and then had their tourist visa refused also....makes me discouraged and now I'm thinking the worst...

My dog is in England and I miss her terribly. Since I left she got diagnosed with a cancerous tumour and had to have it removed. She's 9-10, a 3-legged rescue dog, and my biggest fear when I leave is that something will happen and she will die thinking I've left her,  not knowing I'm coming back...it makes the waiting even more stressful  :(

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Yeah, I see refusals and it gets me to question, did I put that in there, did I put enough in mine, is my folder organized enough... etc.
But I then try to get into my head, we did everything they requested plus some and try to keep positive and tell myself, I will have a Visa...I will have a Visa....I will go home to my fiance and we will be married in 3 months. I will get my Visa...No Negative thoughts...Stay out!!!!...LOL
:( How is her condition now? Try not to think like that...I do understand but just think of the reunion. When she sees you she will be, MOMMY MOMMY MOMMY MOMMY and jumping all over you. think of the happy reunion.
I am terrified to leave Dave behind but as I have said in previous posts, I know its best for him. I don't want him to forget about me and hate me for leaving him. I love him dearly and he has gotten me through some really difficult times.  They become "your lil furbabies, family"
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #371 on: August 11, 2018, 07:09:50 PM »
Yeah, I see refusals and it gets me to question, did I put that in there, did I put enough in mine, is my folder organized enough... etc.
But I then try to get into my head, we did everything they requested plus some and try to keep positive and tell myself, I will have a Visa...I will have a Visa....I will go home to my fiance and we will be married in 3 months. I will get my Visa...No Negative thoughts...Stay out!!!!...LOL
:( How is her condition now? Try not to think like that...I do understand but just think of the reunion. When she sees you she will be, MOMMY MOMMY MOMMY MOMMY and jumping all over you. think of the happy reunion.
I am terrified to leave Dave behind but as I have said in previous posts, I know its best for him. I don't want him to forget about me and hate me for leaving him. I love him dearly and he has gotten me through some really difficult times.  They become "your lil furbabies, family"

She's doing much better and is finally out of the cone of shame!! I can't wait to be reunited with her - I told my husband that as excited as I am to see him, she's getting her cuddles first ;)


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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #372 on: August 11, 2018, 07:12:21 PM »
She's doing much better and is finally out of the cone of shame!! I can't wait to be reunited with her - I told my husband that as excited as I am to see him, she's getting her cuddles first ;)

Awesome...:) Every time I see a poor fur-baby in the cone of shame i feel so bad for them. Poor things.. I would tell my other half the same thing..LOL
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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #373 on: August 11, 2018, 07:15:47 PM »
Yeah it's tricky  - I think one if the reasons I've been struggling is seeing posts from people who have had multiple refusals and then had their tourist visa refused also....makes me discouraged and now I'm thinking the worst...

My dog is in England and I miss her terribly. Since I left she got diagnosed with a cancerous tumour and had to have it removed. She's 9-10, a 3-legged rescue dog, and my biggest fear when I leave is that something will happen and she will die thinking I've left her,  not knowing I'm coming back...it makes the waiting even more stressful  :(


Oh, no. That just ups the pain of waiting to a whole new level.  :\\\'(

Glad she's doing better now though, it's going to be some reunion!    :D



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Re: Discouraged
« Reply #374 on: August 11, 2018, 07:18:38 PM »
I thought it was a good idea when I first joined because information wise, but the last couple of days I have noticed some discrepancies in peoples information and some mis-informations...Nothing huge, just some people don't know what they are talking about...They guess.

That's the problem, if you didn't know better, you would be inclined to believe someone who looks like they know what they are talking about!  :-\\\\

I'm really curious but not so much so that I've tried to join!  ;D


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