Discouraged

That's the problem, if you didn't know better, you would be inclined to believe someone who looks like they know what they are talking about! 

I'm really curious but not so much so that I've tried to join! 

I have already left 3 out of the 6 I joined...LOL....I am debating right now...LOL...

Hmmm... you never know what you will see at Cardiff Castle.

https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/four-people-group-sex-near-15017592

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Hmmm... you never know what you will see at Cardiff Castle.

https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/four-people-group-sex-near-15017592

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Have any of you been becoming less and less motivated to do anything?

I don't feel like working anymore. I have an hour commute to work, and now it just seems like such a chore. I wake up at 6am and just lie there thinking "ugh" I love my job, but every little thing about everything about it is just ticking me off lately. Anytime someone speaks to me I'm just like "please don't ask me about the visa"

I even found myself snipping at my husband today when all he did was call I'm also PMSing right now which makes it worse.

Today is not a good day and I just want to go home, curl up in a ball and cry.

Lolol. You're in for a treat.

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Lolol. You're in for a treat.

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LOL.... Oh dear god... Bowing my head...LOL

Have any of you been becoming less and less motivated to do anything?

I don't feel like working anymore. I have an hour commute to work, and now it just seems like such a chore. I wake up at 6am and just lie there thinking "ugh" I love my job, but every little thing about everything about it is just ticking me off lately. Anytime someone speaks to me I'm just like "please don't ask me about the visa"

I even found myself snipping at my husband today when all he did was call I'm also PMSing right now which makes it worse.

Today is not a good day and I just want to go home, curl up in a ball and cry.

My husband keeps joking we need to get t-shirts made that say "no, we don't have any visa news yet"!

And yes, I'm totally unmotivated. I'm just trying to keep myself from online shopping in my pyjamas!

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Have any of you been becoming less and less motivated to do anything?

I don't feel like working anymore. I have an hour commute to work, and now it just seems like such a chore. I wake up at 6am and just lie there thinking "ugh" I love my job, but every little thing about everything about it is just ticking me off lately. Anytime someone speaks to me I'm just like "please don't ask me about the visa"

I even found myself snipping at my husband today when all he did was call I'm also PMSing right now which makes it worse.

Today is not a good day and I just want to go home, curl up in a ball and cry.

Yes...I have no motivation at all today. Not feeling well myself...I am feeling the curl up into a ball and cry as well...I just want this all to end. I NEED MY CWTCH

My husband keeps joking we need to get t-shirts made that say "no, we don't have any visa news yet"!

And yes, I'm totally unmotivated. I'm just trying to keep myself from online shopping in my pyjamas!

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OOO Online shopping will make me feel better. ......Of course its only temp feeling of happy and not the real happy i want...I better not...UGGG

My husband keeps joking we need to get t-shirts made that say "no, we don't have any visa news yet"!

And yes, I'm totally unmotivated. I'm just trying to keep myself from online shopping in my pyjamas!

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I work alone. So I'm sitting in here trying  not to cry, but also feeling lonely. Then if someone does talk to me the only thing I'm hearing nowadays is "VISA VISA VISA" and like....I get it...people are happy for me, they want to know. But I WANT TO KNOW TOO! D:

I don't feel like myself.

Damned PMS isn't helping. It's making me really agitated at everyone, including myself. I'm like....just pick up the pace...distract yourself. But I really can't be bothered. I want to just go home. I'm in dire need of that London/Wine/Cookies/Chocolate outing.

I miss my husband. I'm lonely. I thought about leaving my cat again after reading this thread and started crying. I'm just a hot mess. I need a cwtch too

Ladies, all three of you.  GO ROAM TARGET.  I don’t even love a Target but even though I’m exhausted, I would go walk around for like 4 hours right now if I could.

My husband keeps joking we need to get t-shirts made that say "no, we don't have any visa news yet"!

And yes, I'm totally unmotivated. I'm just trying to keep myself from online shopping in my pyjamas!

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I want it tattooed on my face! People here are like " OH YOU SILLY, YOULL GET IT" and I'm like you don't understand the process dude I am not immune to back luck or mistakes. I appreciate their positivity. But I don't have an ounce of positivity in me.

I wanted to be happy and share with my friends that I got the e-mail, then decided against it because then everyone would assume I got the visa approval. So, I got that happy news....and can't really share it with anyone because all it does is confuse people. Damn home office not giving us our answers in the email!!

I feel bad for being bitchy to my husband. He doesn't deserve my mood swings.

I work alone. So I'm sitting in here trying  not to cry, but also feeling lonely. Then if someone does talk to me the only thing I'm hearing nowadays is "VISA VISA VISA" and like....I get it...people are happy for me, they want to know. But I WANT TO KNOW TOO! D:

I don't feel like myself.

Damned PMS isn't helping. It's making me really agitated at everyone, including myself. I'm like....just pick up the pace...distract yourself. But I really can't be bothered. I want to just go home. I'm in dire need of that London/Wine/Cookies/Chocolate outing.

I miss my husband. I'm lonely. I thought about leaving my cat again after reading this thread and started crying. I'm just a hot mess. I need a cwtch too

Omg...I know exactly how you feel today. Especially when people keep asking about the visa...Don't worry, you will know instantly when I know..The whole world will know....Stop freaking asking...You are only making me more anxious and feel worse.

Ladies, all three of you.  GO ROAM TARGET.  I don’t even love a Target but even though I’m exhausted, I would go walk around for like 4 hours right now if I could.

But I'm at work 

When I was waiting, I had it in my mind that I was going to get a refusal (for no particular reason) and I made peace with it and just planned on fixing whatever I had messed up and reapplying.

But I put myself through all of that for no reason. I ticked all of the boxes, got my fiance visa, moved to Scotland,  got married and successfully applied for my FLR(M).

You all will get your decisions soon enough and you'll be moving on with your lives.

The visa process is much like giving birth. Painful while it is happening but that pain is soon forgotten.

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