~~whew~~ I am soooooo glad that my husband and I got married when we did and DIDN'T put it off until next year. Plus, I just can't imagine NOT being married to him now.

Anyway, are they trying to make it just as difficult as they possibly can? I mean! This is bordering on the rediculous now when you consider that, once upon a time, like 3 years ago, a visa didn't cost hardly a thing and one could do everything from within the UK - just come over, get married, and stay. Anyone see Shadowlands? It worked that way for years, now it seems like they are trying to make up for lost time by not only making things a wee bit tougher by adding some necessary redtape to see if couples are legit, but trying to make it excruiciatingly hard....making all sorts of hoops that people have to jump through.
Well, like I said, I'm just glad things happened for me when they did....any more redtape would have driven me completely batty!