One immediate problem I have now is I don’t have any old tickets or flight records, or skype record
It was me that came out to visit my wife 6 times. Before settling here, 10 years ago with no incline that one day we might be wanting to come back to the UK to live.
Not even email confirmations from when you booked the flights?
If you don't have them, then you don't have them and can't send them. Not a big deal.. Same with the Skype records.
Since you have been married and living together for 10 years, the
most important evidence will be the evidence of you living together at the same address as each other for those 10 years, so you'll need to provide documents from each year of living together, such as:
- annual tax returns showing the same address for both of you
- tenancy agreements and/or house deeds and mortgage statements
- utility bills
etc.
Then you just provide whatever evidence you can of visiting her and communicating with each other between 2007 and 2010.
So my wife has No records in her US passport at all, and the only record I have is 6 visa stamps in and OLD UK passport which I still have besides my new UK passport, of course.
This the only record we have and what we have done is scan the old Passport Pages showing these travel dates that I made.. into a .pdf document. I have no other evidence other than this..
I hope this will do..?
None of this is an issue and you do not need to include the passport pages.
Just explain in the letter the dates you visited and that you no longer have the flight tickets or boarding passes. The fact that you have lived together for 10 years will far outweigh that evidence anyway.
So, for your relationship evidence, you should include:
- marriage certificate
- any divorce decrees if either of you were married previously
- 2 photos you and your wife together (i.e one from your wedding in 2010 and one recent one in 2020)
10 years of evidence of living together between 2010 and 2020- annual tax returns from 2010 to 2019
- utility bills, maybe 1-2 per year.
- tenancy agreements/house deeds/mortgage statements
3 years of evidence of a long-distance relationship between 2007 and 2010- any boarding passes/flight tickets you still have
- any letters/cards you sent each other that you still have
- screenshots of email inboxes/call logs/phone bills/IM messages etc. if you still have them