Hahaha, I get the 'phatbeetle is in, let's have a party for her and J' too. I don't mind. J was overwhelmed at first, but now he goes with the flow.
As the second oldest of four siblings, I was usually not even remotely a focus of attention growing up. So it's fun to get that as an adult. HAHAH
A bit off topic, but I'm #2 of four, too!
There was a huge gap after me, though (while my parents saw what they made and thought long and hard about trying again), so it was more like being the younger sister, then suddenly working in a 24-hour daycare at age nine.