I have a follow up question regarding family in the US, sorry if this is similar to a previous question but I wanted to check in case we can avoid awkward questions with my in-laws. Unfortunately there was a falling out in my wife's family (she didn't have anything to do with it, this was many years ago), and she has had no contact with her Grandmother for many years, it is a very sad situation. Is it worth mentioning her grandmother on the question about friends and family in the US, or is she distant enough she could be left off? If it would be better to include her, we understand.