OH GOD....I need a friend

Just lending another offer of support. I can't imagine how you feel right now, but we are all friends and here for you! If you'd like more company when you plant the tree, I'm sure some of us can also try to be there as well. Remembering her in your own way is important.

Feel everything and do everything you need to in order to be ok. Grief is tricky and we all do it differently. And please don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it. *gentle hugs*

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I’m so so sorry for your loss. It’s terrible when your so far away. It’s great your husband is supportive- lean on him. The tree idea is absolutely beautiful!  Everybody on this forum is fantastic and always here to listen if you need it.

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Not being able to go home at a time like this is really hard.  Lots of us have been there and we feel for you.

OMG!!!!...what I haven't had enough yet.... My aunt passes away at christmas, my mom passes away a few days ago and now my uncle is in the emergency room...WTF!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGG GGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG GGGGGGGGGGGGG
 

Oh no. What a nightmare. I hope he gets better soon and gets out. I'm so sorry this is happening. I hope you get your visa soon so you can go be with your family for a bit. Hugs.

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when am I going to wake up...? When will this nightmare end? I really can't take much more bad news....

Biggest hugs.  ((((((((((((((((((((((((((()))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I'm so sorry I hope your uncle recovers quickly! If you do need to go home while your visa is processing please reach out to your MP. They can help with bumping processing times for extenuating circumstances.

((hugs))

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So an update....My mother was able to receive what she wanted. I was able to give her body to science so hopefully the future doctors will learn and come up with a cure or be able to understand some conditions a bit better and to save a life or many more lives.

My uncle was treated and has to go to a speciality doctor to figure out what is going on but from what I am understanding he is resting as comfortably as possible.

Thank you everyone for all your kind words and being there.

Awww, that's great LIW.  I hope that gives you a bit of peace.   

So an update....My mother was able to receive what she wanted. I was able to give her body to science so hopefully the future doctors will learn and come up with a cure or be able to understand some conditions a bit better and to save a life or many more lives.

That's wonderful. And they will absolutely treat your mother with the utmost care and respect. 

So an update....My mother was able to receive what she wanted. I was able to give her body to science so hopefully the future doctors will learn and come up with a cure or be able to understand some conditions a bit better and to save a life or many more lives.

That is really good to hear! And so kind of her to make that contribution.

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A few days late but I am SO SO sorry. Words can't do the situation justice, but keeping you in my thoughts while you go through this and sending positive vibes your way I can't imagine having to deal with all this from so far away while also dealing with the stress of a visa.

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. Please know you'll be in my thoughts and prayers. And sending lots of love your way.