We are from Jenkintown and have always coveted the neighborhoods of Chestnut Hill and even Doylestown. Definitely hoping to find something like that in our new area!
Then you'll love it here. It's a mix of leafy and urban. In West Hampstead, there's a wine shop where you can drink in with snacks (SUCH a change from PA's state stores), an indie bookshop that is an institution and social hub, a great butcher, always-packed greengrocer, and excellent restaurants galore. There's a top-notch farmer's market every Saturday. You can walk over to Finchley Road to go to one of the big cinemas (not America-big, but one has an IMAX auditorium, and the other has like 12 screens). You're walking distance to too many park spaces to count, including the one that hosts the local weekend ParkRun. You want all those hard-to-get ingredients? Head over to the Kilburn High Road, where you can source pretty much anything, plus the little Tesco and Sainsbury's have American sections, if that's your bag. Also over at Finchley Road: big Sainsbury's and Waitrose, both of which have US stuff and strong Kosher sections (v important for pickles), and a Virgin Active with all sorts of programmes for kids. There's a local cinema and theatre on the KHR that has all the indies, Monday films for £6, and theatre productions that regularly end up transferring to the West End. There's even a vegan-hippy shop that proves vegan hippy sorts are the same wherever you go (also they sell the best rocket aka arugula and I am obsessed with it???).
I can walk to work, and sometimes, unless I have specific plans, I don't actually leave a 2-mile radius from our flat for weeks on end. I've got culture, food, entertainment, nature, exercise and booooze all on my doorstep. And that's honestly the lifestyle I was angling for when I lived in downtown Phoenixville in PA. Except I still needed a car there, and now I have public transport. The area is very well connected for tube, overground, busses and Thameslink -- if you want to hit the beach, you can literally get on the Thameslink in Whamp and be in Brighton an hour later. Not the same as the Jersey Shore, but you're not moving here for the same!
Another bonus for you and the family: you'll live in the catchment area for the Royal Free Hospital, which is world-class. It's a six-minute Overground ride, in case they have an opening in your field. But UCLH is 20 minutes by tube, Middlesex Hospital like 20 by bus. So it would give you options as well.
DH will be there for 2 weeks once his visa goes through and that will give us a chance to see things in person and really start narrowing options down.
Thank you, hms_seahorse!
If you need any tips at all or a neighbourhood guide or someone to lead you directly to the dill pickle buckets, do not hesitate to shout. I genuinely believe one of the reasons my transition to/experience in the UK has been so happy is that we chose this area (husband was previously in Camden Town, and that would have driven me up the wall). You can be London-anonymous if you want to, or you can be a real part of the community (I will not reveal how well-known I am in the wine shop shhhhh). Also, I'm not a kids-person, but I know people with them, and the schools are generally good-plus, from what I understand.
Anyway, yeah, definitely don't discount other options, but I'm obviously a big fan of this area from that ex-Philly burbs perspective!