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Hi all ,,,, As you all now i am doing my visa which runs out July 10, 2019 (posted in Forums)..
I am going for the extension which is the ten yrs minus the time i have been here, This is due to my patience which has run out and moving out to live by myself once i get in touch with the Immigration.
  Anytime important things like this come up i seem to be getting squashed and threatened to leave ..i want to stay here but not in these conditions...i had a knife put to my throat..and she blames it on anxiety..(mmm) i am struggling to keep my sanity on even keel..done it so far..but how long will this last i don't know if i can carry on...Immigrations has told to to pack up leave..(easy answer) i want to move out. i was told i can get a divorce, stay for three months while they think of what they do to me..Does not convincing..

  Anyways the knife to the throat was the last ...i have never assaulted her i don't intend to..because i would certainly get the boot.
What can i do... ?rather go home but..need some cash at least 5,000.00 pounds i am seriously scared.

Hi all ,,,, As you all now i am doing my visa which runs out July 10, 2019 (posted in Forums)..
I am going for the extension which is the ten yrs minus the time i have been here, This is due to my patience which has run out and moving out to live by myself once i get in touch with the Immigration.
  Anytime important things like this come up i seem to be getting squashed and threatened to leave ..i want to stay here but not in these conditions...i had a knife put to my throat..and she blames it on anxiety..(mmm) i am struggling to keep my sanity on even keel..done it so far..but how long will this last i don't know if i can carry on...Immigrations has told to to pack up leave..(easy answer) i want to move out. i was told i can get a divorce, stay for three months while they think of what they do to me..Does not convincing..

  Anyways the knife to the throat was the last ...i have never assaulted her i don't intend to..because i would certainly get the boot.
What can i do... ?rather go home but..need some cash at least 5,000.00 pounds i am seriously scared.

So sorry to hear this eddy. 

However, you have rights as a victim of domestic violence and this is the avenue you should be pursuing if you want to stay. Even if that just gives you enough time to get yourself in a position to return home.

I think you would need concrete evidence of the situation though. Have you notified the police or your gp?

There is quite a good explanation here. https://www.freemovement.org.uk/domestic-violence-immigration-route/

The official guidance. https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/680977/victims-of-domestic-violence-v14.pdf

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/application-to-settle-in-uk-form-setdv

Thank you Very much..Larrabee...I will follow up tomorrow...i have been told not to let her know whats going..I have documentation..and will see my Doctor tomorrow.

Thank you Very much..Larrabee...I will follow up tomorrow...i have been told not to let her know whats going..I have documentation..and will see my Doctor tomorrow.

Be safe.

No advice here but just wanted to say that I'm sorry you're in this position. Please be safe! Wishing you the best

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Oh, Eddy, I am so sorry to hear this! You have had a difficult time for a long time now! Larrabee's advice is, as usual, excellent. Do make sure you report all incidents of violence and abuse so that there are records as evidence. I hope it works out for you but do not remain in an unsafe environment.


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Hi All...  been busy doing my Domestic violence Visa. i have completed it and Monday on my way to Sheffield to get my BRP done. applied for my police report which would take 30 days i only have 15 days to do, and put all information to Immigration i do have a copy of with date and time.need to sign of and answer questions. tonight...small steps for an ounce of happiness...
-   Thank you all will follow up on any info..which can be used for this forum...Larrabee you are a jewel to my soul..ty all..xox..
 I don't why i went to a cemetery yesterday sat down and started chatting on whatsapp to my niece in Perth Au.. hada good laff after many days and sleepless nights. Miss my family in Australia and Toronto.

 I am sure my patience will give me peace..somewhere...

I am sure my patience will give me peace..somewhere...

I really hope so. You deserve so much better than life has dealt you lately. All the very best.

Fingers crossed that you can get through this as quickly and painlessly as possible. Thinking of you.

Best of lucky eddyj.

Well everything sent in they wanted visa BRB passport police incident  and medical evidence of me talkin g to my GP and domestic violence people..
i have to do the 3mth extended then if all goes well i will apply ..still need a out..

My out is my photography...take a look IG eddy_waddel ..i feel so good when i am out and and able to just talk to anyone in a normal fashion....very pleasant..some ppl are..i even sat down with a homeless in leeds yesterday i bought him lunch and me  and had a good laff with him..god how i wish for those days..it will come...

BTW ...i have been called a black bastard, and not wanted by the father and mother. okay i am mixed..racism it does not bother me  been hearing that since i was born..its okay...i choose to not see or go anywhere with them..i won't change ..my buddhist beliefs have carried me to a whole new level..i have a better relationship with my buddy whom i am going to see saturday for lunch again..take him some beads..and watch the world go by...laff  laff....its my medicine to happiness. Lincoln Sunday..

hate venting but no one to talk to..editing photos..

also talking to my best friend in virginia ..she an awesome lady who went through the same chaos as me.. through this i will be stronger ...i just hate confrontations..physically or emotionally ...xoxoxo to all ...  life is so chaotic sometimes..

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hate venting but no one to talk to..

If there is anything you need to talk about that shouldn't be posted on the open forum, please feel free to message me, eddy. Happy to be an ear and a shoulder if that helps. 

Hi Eddy - you seem to put the same two lines after all your photos on Instagram and I'm curious to know where they're from

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Following you as well. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I hope you get your leave to remain and can live somewhere with more opportunities!

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