Okay, I think i have a grasp now.
We have been having long thoughts going back and to about what to do.
We currently rent. It's £725pm and it's in a nice neighbourhood and my wife makes use of the good rail links into Liverpool where she works. So we need a house near to a railway station as she doesn't drive. Our landlord has offered the house to us at £160k which is actually very well priced for the area. It needs work but it's nothing structural. Things like; new front door, new front windows, a few radiators, carpets.
OR do we push the boat out more and go for something around the £190k mark which is more of a finished product with a large garden for our little one. Our garden is pretty small and pathetic and she just loves running (as most 2 year olds do). We done online calculations and they say we can afford £240k.
With a £190k mark that puts a mortgage around about the £680pm area which is only a small saving compared to our current rent but a better house. Or, if we buy our current house it will put our mortage at around the £490pm mark, a huge £235 saving compared to our rent.
We're looking for mortgage brokers currently to get a application in principle but it's difficult to find one you can trust without word of mouth.
I, personally, would not borrow near the top end of what the calculators say you can afford. Live within your means and save for retirement. But between buying your current rental or buying something a bit more, consider that you're currently without a chain. This makes you an attractive buyer because you won't slow down a transaction. The next time you go to buy a house, you'll likely need to sell one first, which makes it much more difficult. So for
this house purchase, get all the things you want/need. If your garden now is too small, go for one with the garden you need for your child to run and play in, etc. If you might have more children, consider an extra bedroom or two, and another bathroom.
I'm not suggesting buying the house you ultimately want to retire in, but do consider the things your family needs for the next ten years or so, at least.