Just an update... I got my ILR approval email this morning! I am so relieved!! To everyone waiting- I know this is a difficult time, but just keep the faith and remain patient. It'll come through! Try not to think about it and keep busy with other things!
I applied July 22nd, received the email that we weren't eligible for the app a couple weeks later, in person biometrics in Nottingham was August 27th. My husband's in the British Army, so our application form was a little different (SET-AF).