I dont believe in soulmates, and think that marriage should be a contract up for renewal every 5 years.
This probably explains why i have been married 3 times!
My first DH was American... a spoilt, selfish, mummy's boy, over-achiever. When i left ,he was upset, but it wasnt so much because his wife was leaving him, and more because it was the first time he had ever failed at anything and it pissed him off.
My 2nd DH was Scottish... a 'bad boy' with a drink problem. But i have never had so much laughter, fun, excitement and adventure in my life as i did the years i was with him.
My 3rd DH (also Scottish) is very quiet, steady, dependable and unadventurous. But that suits the person i am now... i feel like i've had my wild days, and now want life to be calm and quiet.
Who knows what i will want in another 5 years?
Hope that wasnt too much personal info... wouldnt want to shock you guys too much!