No, sticky_frog, rest assured it's not just you! I'll be very frank here, it's very hard to find a decent job in the UK. Even citizens have a hard time --- and it really puts a huge damper on your self-esteem.
Take it from me, I know... although I haven't yet worked there myself, I have witnessed the same frustrations you're feeling just watching my guy.
My guy has had a
very hard time just finding steady work in his field (accounting), even though he is fully certified ... that's why he's decided to give America a try instead, because nothing's really happening for him so far in the UK -- and furthermore the pay is better in America, too! He had a permanent job for three years, but left when he realized his employer was sneakily paying him below the minimum wage for that job!
He feels he's already at a dead end, and he's only in his early 20's. It's been frustration after frustration for us, too.
He applies for jobs as often as he can, yet is unsuccessful almost all the time. He has accumulated an inch-thick booklet of rejection letters he keeps to remind himself of all his effort lost. No wonder he feels like it's just a waste of time even to apply... he has learned to expect rejection. The only work he's managed to find recently has been temp job after temp job.
Jobs are required to be listed by law EVEN AFTER they're already taken, which is very frustrating. How is anyone supposed to know if they're taken or not? My guy had just about had it the last time he applied for a permanent job. We were so elated when he finally got an interview. But on the morning of the interview, after he had gotten all dressed up and everything and was ready to go, a woman called him and rescheduled his appointment for the next week instead because the interviewer was "conveniently" taking a day off. Slightly frustrated, we decided not to let it get to us because at least it was rescheduled. Then, the morning of his NEW appointment, after he had gotten all dressed up again, the same woman called again and told him somebody had already taken the job, and told him not to bother coming. The same morning, an hour before his rescheduled interview!!! [smiley=veryangry.gif] That's why I am still questioning if I want to move back to the UK after I finish my degree... will it even be worth it if they treat people like that??
So yes, I really do sympathize with your situation!!!