I always had a curfew, but it could be adjusted depending on the type of activity that I was going to (so, I could come home a little later from things like school dances, movies that let out after my usual curfew, etc.). However, we always had the agreement that if I called and let them know where I was and asked to stay a little later, the request was usually granted. So, if I was watching a movie at a friend's house and it was getting close to curfew, I could call and tell my mom that we had a half hour left in the movie and I would be late. So, I had a curfew, but it was flexible as long as I was being responsible and keeping in contact with my folks.