Is it me or does this ILR apt. come up around the most stressful times of our lives?
Here you are having your first baby right at that time- we had just moved, I was diagnosed with a thyroid disorder, we were told our daughter's speech problem was really more serious than anyone thought, we had three sets of guests and I got an important letter that needed a lot of sorting out, and finances were a mess because of just having moved.......
Though I have lived out of the US for ten years, I was always just a visitor in the other places I have lived and I had to come to grips with the fact that I may never live in the US again, and that my children might be reared only here. I found that difficult- then I was stressed that it might cause some kind of family separation.
I mean, I was not an easy person to live with back then.....
