depressed

I was really looking forward to moving here for months before I moved but I had a nervous breakdown right before I moved and I nearly threw in the towel on the whole thing. But I went through with it, and took my chances. It took me ages to settle in but 5 1/2 years later, I am fine and thriving in my ''new'' life (not so new anymore).
The most important thing that helped me is to find things that I like doing. I found a job, made a few friends, joined a gym, learned to cook my favorite foods, all the same things I did back home.
Its never going to be exactly the same but as long as you make the effort, you cant go wrong. Good luck whatever you decide.

well I do want to move and I guess I should make a list of things I should do...to keep me super busy.

well I do want to move and I guess I should make a list of things I should do...to keep me super busy.

Good idea--get yourself organized (less stress overall that way) and make that list. 

I think it would be fun and good for your state of mind to make a list of fun things to do and see in the UK with your fiance, too

I think a list is a great idea! Lists always make me feel better because the more organized things are the calmer I feel. I'm in the middle of making a list of things I need to gather for my fiance visa, list of things I want to buy here for my home there, what I want to pack and what I want to leave behind, etc etc!