~sigh~ It certainly looks definite. I've got 100 flat-packed cardboard boxes stacked up in my hallway, and another 20 already filled with inventoried stuff. And a pile of stuff to send to the Heart Foundation charity shop.
It's a shame, though. We'd be leaving at the three-and-a-half year mark towards her getting "settled" status and then later, citizenship. She would be giving it up forever, pretty much, unless there was some amazing job opportunity down the line that would pay for her work permits and stuff. Or unless her Irish citizenship application was approved. I don't see either happening, realistically.
[Edit: I also have two pairs of "like new" black wellies here we don't need. One says size 8, one size 9. One of them still has the elastic between the two boots, so they've never been worn. I'll accept any reasonable offer, plus postage. Otherwise they'll go to the charity shop.]