Hi Everyone,
I just stumbled upon this site a couple of days ago and I have to say im impressed with the wealth of knowledge and information that being exchanged, its helped me a lot already..
Let me take the time to introduce to you my situation.
I met my wife on the internet in 2001 and we fell in love
, got engaged that year after meeting each other in the states (Pittsburgh PA) (it was a really happy time).
By the way she is the USC and I'm the UKC.
as she was still in uni, we decided to have an official engagement party in the states (with a kind of Hindu ceremony) in August 2002 which all went well as well.
then the wedding date we planned was for April 2004 in the UK.
The Hindu wedding was planned to be in the US whilst the actual registry would be in UK.
We planned for her to move here. (UK)
I did some research about the UK Fiance visa (Entry Clearance for marriage) and went to NY with my wife to present our VAF2 application.
This all went swimmingly well and we got the visa the same day.
I used this site for my primary info:
http://www.ljnelson.com/personal/musings/ustouk.htm [nofollow] The site is dated, but very very handy indeed. especially the day of the visa experience.
After this, I went to the states in April with my mum and dad and loads of relatives for the huge hindu wedding (not official wedding) and went on honeymoon (nice carribbean cruise), back to PA, then back to england.
She came on her one way ticket with Entry Clearance in her passport.
Gatwick POE experience lasted less than a minute. He just took one look at the Entry Clearance stamp (we didn't have to say a word) and he said 'Thats all I need to see, thank you.' (I had some documents with me just in case but I didn't need them).
After about 7 days, we gave notice of marriage and got married at the end of May 2004 in a simple registry. (I booked this a year ago).
a week later, we went to Lunar house, Croydon to get her Limited Leave to Remain, the 2 year Resident permit that allows work and residence.)
This was a very stressful experience. It took the whole day.
They basically didn't call our ticket number. and when we tried to explain, the arrogant lady told us that we weren't paying attention and to just sit it out. In
the end, they never logged our number in the system, so they had to apologise in the end when we got the stamp and letter. I prebooked the appointment and
everything, But arrrgh
just thinking about it makes me angry. anyway <deep breaths> we got it in the end.
Now we are living quite happily in Wiltshire. My wife is a Senior Nursery Nurse (since June 2004) and I'm working as a software engineer (for past 3.5 years)
BUT...(drum-roll please)
Now we are deciding to move back to the States !
Having read the DCF experiences of Emmy, I've decided to try the DCF in the middle of June 2005 (Her Limited Leave to Remain was issued at the beginning of June 2004) She will have established a good residence here, and we'll send copies of utility bills in her name as well as copy of NHS card and employment contract. along with the I-130 petition.
If the DCF gets rejected
, I'll just follow the US service Centre route. (Vermont for PA residents.)
a potential spanner in the works (that might actually work towards our advantage) is that we're booked to go on a family cruise (about 20 of us) sailing from Miami in December 2005.
I was aiming to get the visa perhaps before then, so I could get to Miami, get the I-551 stamp in my passport and fly back after two weeks.
(I would give the residence address of my in laws who live at PA) I would then sort a few things out back here and go back in March 2006.
Would this be an acceptable thing to do?
ie. would it seem like I am disrespecting my US residence by going back so soon and staying for as long as 3 months out of the US even though the stamp is valid
for 12 months.
I read on the uscis.gov:
http://uscis.gov/graphics/howdoi/PermRes.htm [nofollow] "...However in determining whether your status has been abandoned any length of absence from the US may be considered, even if it is less than one year."
Would this be acceptable even with respect to the statement above?
Anyway thanks so much for you time.
I'll definately keep you all posted on my experiences and progress.
If anyone wants to know what the VAF2 and LLTR application experience was like in further detail, please let me know and I'll give you advice.
Many thanks & take care.
Sanctifyer.