Thanks for that

, but I really would love to be able to get his visa before I go back to UK. I don't really fancy sending my passport via the postage service for a start and I want to be able to get back over there and just concentrate on getting myself a job.
I do have a policy that matures on August 6th, for quite a substantial amount

and hubby is not planning on coming over until the house is available to move into, which is around the same time as the policy matures.
I would have loved us both to go back at the same time, but as I said before, I really don't want us to be living with family/friends.........and only because I think it will be a bit of culture shock to hubby as it is, plus I don't want either one of us to be under any stress, if you know what I mean!
We wont have a lot left over from what we sell here - we don't really have that much! We both started from the bottom you see 3 years ago and now we are about to do it again...mad or what ! lol.
The ideal plan would be for us to get his visa before I go to UK - one less worry there for a start! Then he carries on working here - at least there will be some money coming in still. I will get a job once I get back and then he can join me as soon as the house is available.
We have already been through so much stress and strain with me having to get a visa to come over here and I just really want an end to it all and of course for it to go a lot more smoothly this time round!
I'm sure things will work out somehow - they usually do.
Pauline
