Yeah, I hear ya, peedal. It worries me too, but dh really wants to stay in this area, near his family, and there is just no way in hell that we can afford to buy here.... It may get more feesable once I finish my degree and start properly working again, but it's a lot of pressure on me to get a high paying job rather than a emotionally satisfying one (the two never seem to go together!) But if we did a part ownership while I'm in the early stages of my new career, it would seem that our circumstances would improve enough as that career progressed that we could buy the rest of the house. Sigh. I don't know. That's also just my selfish take on it....
And don't think that dh isn't lobbying for me to go to work for a NHS mental health trust to get us on the key worker list. Of course you're right, expat, I'm not sure the non-living wages make it worth it....