Well, I recently got a letter from my job saying that my medical history and my references are OK, so I don't have to worry about that anymore.
But...
I have an appointment for an ultrasound and afterwards to see a gynecologist in about a month regarding fertility and other problems. When I got the gyn appointment, I didn't know when the ultrasound would be, other than that it would be sometime before the gyn appointment, which is at 3:30 PM, so I figured I might as well take the whole day off.
So I asked my boss what I needed to do, as I'd never taken a day off to see a doctor before, and she said I need to give her a copy of the appointent letter from the hospital when I get it. I now have an appointment letter for an ultrasound and another for a gyn. I'm kind of annoyed that my boss has to see these, and I presume she has to pass them on to HR, all for one day off from work. (I get 29 holidays, plus all the bank holidays off. What's the difference if I take one sick day?) I just started this job. Everyone knows I recently married; I have a coworker who recently announced her pregnancy and brought in her ultrasound photo of the baby when she announced it. I really don't need anyone getting suspicions about why I am having an ultrasound--for the record, I am not pregnant, and at the moment, not even trying to get pregnant. But it is nobody's business at work anyway.