In regards to Africa, and I'm sorry it's taking me forever to put up a blog with pics, but...
Most of the places we stayed (Kenya and Uganda) were indeed, gorgeous lodges, and all meals included. Even the 'tent camps' we stayed in were what I would consider 5-star, in that they were very large, had hard floors, and running water. Only one place in Uganda didn't have running water, but it was for two nights, and other than that, the food, the staff, the accommodations were all lovely and very accommodating.
You are always looked after; even though we were 'on our own,' we always had a driver/guide looking after us.
We stayed at four different Serena hotels in Kenya; Samburu, Mountain Lodge, Sweetwaters and Mara (my personal favourite, where they upgraded us to a gorgeous suite!):
http://www.serenahotels.com/safari.htm And in Uganda, we first stayed here:
http://www.ecoafrica.com/african/safaris/SanctuaryLodges/GorillaForestCamp.html (where there is no running water, but if you're not a princess, it's lovely), and then here:
http://www.mweyalodge.com/, which I absolutely LOVED.
For some reason, my computer's shutting down when I try to upload pictures right now; but here are a couple of where we stayed at Sweetwaters Tented Camp (I'll put more in the gallery if anyone else is curious, and not to take up loads of room here):
So you can see, even though it's called a 'tent camp,' it's really very nice!
Here is one taken at breakfast at Samburu Serena Lodge - all open, looks out onto a lawn and then the river; really gorgeous surroundings.