i bought my friend back home a personalized anniversary charm for her & her husband i also bought her a breast cancer charm, a styx charm & a siamesse cat chasing leaves charm as well. my dh thought i bought them for myself he said u already have 2 charm bracelets y do u need a 3rd one? when i told him it wasnt for me he said thanks goodness. in his defense i am a ebay junkie but im not as bad as i used to b though.