I absolutely agree with what Anne suggested. I did just that. I had only a vague idea of what I wanted done. My hair is fine but I have a lot of it, and it's naturally wavy-curly. Together, that makes a great combination for frizz. So, I already knew that many of the styles I saw in magazines were not going to work on me. I also had a slim pearl and crystal headband, instead of a tiara. (I don't need any more height.) And I also had a single layer, elbow-length veil. I knew I didn't want a real up-do, but something pulled back off my face. With those criteria, the stylist was able to come up with something nice.