I appreciate all the comments. I'll print them off for my dh to read. I'll search on the HSMP and the IWA. I don't know right now what they are exactly. He was thinking the highly skilled migrant programme might work. He has a masters degree (couple classes to go only) and is in his mid-thirties. I have a bachelors degree. I'm a stay at home mom mostly. I sell soap at summer farmers markets. I don't intend to work at all if we move to the U.K.
We were thinking if he could keep his U.S. salary, it could make it more affordable to live in the U.K. A while back he could have transferred to Cork. It would have been with a U.S. company but at a *big* paycut. Because they paid less there, or the exchange rate. So we felt we couldn't do it. (I'm kicking myself now though). He spent time there though working on a trip with them and liked it. The people were *very friendly* to him.
I know the U.S./U.K. joint taxes would hurt. We've just started exploring the idea. We'd need to know what those figures would be I suppose to know if this would be feasible. Not sure how to do that either.

My dh has traveled all over for a previous company he worked for...he works with guys from India and Canada now(as well as people in the U.S.) and they live in India and Canada in his work group. Everyone works from home. I spent a few weeks in Germany as a teen living with a family. I loved it. That was a long time ago, lol! We tend to move every few years in the U.S. Don't have things tying us down here. We are adventure seekers. But also like things quiet at home. So we'll keep researching to try to make this work. We have a 2nd grader, 8th grader and a special ed autistic program 4th grader. He's lower functioning (nonverbal) and I don't know if Scotland, Britain or Ireland would have special classes setup just for autistic kids. I have some sites bookmarked and can contact them for info. We need to figure out if we should try next summer to visit or wait until the 8th grader is out of high school and taker her with us for college there. I think high school there may end after 11th grade? I need to search that out too.
My dh is Scottish/Brittish by ancestry. I'm German, but they don't speak english in the German schools so we're focusing on the UK.

We can holiday in Germany.

Thanks!!!
LizIA