Chara,
It seems you and I had similiar experiences
Becky
Ok the registrar said something to me about having bands read, please don't take this as gospel but I remember hearing that if our bands were read (meaning the Vicar asked the church on 3 different occasions if anyone objected to us getting married) that we didn't have to do anything with the waiting or the registry, but our Viccar didn't agree but I think that all depends on your Viccar plus my registry office wasn't that up on things, the woman sort of gave me a lot of inconsistant untrue information, but that might be something to ask about.