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Ok my bf is a nerd
« on: October 04, 2006, 06:00:28 PM »
So right, I've been getting on a little bit better with my boyfriend. Understanding why he can't call all the time or email me.

I love him so much, but we still fight all the time. The worst part about fighting on the phone is that I love him so much, so no matter what happens, the argument pretty much goes no where.

Less arguing and more talking would be ideal! I guess thats just the way we work though.


So like I told him I post in these forums and whilst I'm at work, I'm sure he will come in with his side of the story about everything.

I just have to say, "Don't listen to him, he exaggerates!" So if you see a Mr. Thinks-he-is-right-about-everything, just ignore him!  ;)  ;)





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Re: Ok my bf is a nerd
« Reply #1 on: October 04, 2006, 06:02:18 PM »
OK!! but what's he going to think when he sees this post?!  :o


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Re: Ok my bf is a nerd
« Reply #2 on: October 04, 2006, 06:37:25 PM »
What do you fight about, if you don't mind me asking?


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Re: Ok my bf is a nerd
« Reply #3 on: October 04, 2006, 07:02:30 PM »
haha

well lets see where to start...no its not like that.

We mainly just fight about his going to Budapest and not saving money. I do have to admit I start a few of these arguments. I'm a very impatient person, and I want stuff done now, instead of waiting. I know its not his fault, but I would like to see him put some initiative into this whole thing. Instead of focusing on the fun stuff..ie Budapest and ATP (music festival).

I understand why he wants to put all of his energy into it, I just wish some of that energy could be put into me as well, just so I know that I am important in his life.

As for thinking that being here is the end of the world...well I'm over that now. He has changed a bit and listend to things I have been saying. Maybe he was the whole time, but it has been three weeks since I have been here and I think I have just gotten used to the fact that we are apart and thats just the way it has to be for a while.

You guys were right about the first couple of weeks being hard! IT WAS! Now, I know everything happens for a reason, and I so I'm over "feeling sorry for myself", and got on with things...






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Re: Ok my bf is a nerd
« Reply #4 on: October 04, 2006, 09:04:22 PM »
Are any of you guys from Essex?? xx





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Re: Ok my bf is a nerd
« Reply #5 on: October 04, 2006, 09:10:12 PM »
ps: money IS the number one cause of fights in couples

number 2: sex





(don't ask me where i got this from)

Essex, my DH is from Harlow. We live London but go out there once a month or so


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