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Getting married Saturday
« on: March 29, 2007, 05:58:18 PM »
and everyone keeps saying 'you must be so excited!' and garbage like that.  I wish I were, but I am just stressed out and wishing we had just eloped.  I hate stress, don't do well with it at all and really am not enjoying this.  I hope things change before Saturday or I will be the grouchiest most horrible bride in the country. 

Did anyone else feel like this before their wedding?

 


Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #1 on: March 29, 2007, 06:06:05 PM »
I was a grumpy bride!
I had a headache, my MIL was annoying me, and i HATED my hair!

Hope it all goes well on Saturday... and hope you can relax between now and then!  :-*


Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #2 on: March 29, 2007, 06:19:54 PM »
Good luck on Saturday.  I was not a grumpy bride, I was an overwhelmed bride!  I was sorting out American friends and family and last minute details. 


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Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #3 on: March 29, 2007, 11:31:39 PM »
Good luck on Saturday.  I've known lots of grumpy brides and the only advice I can offer is try to find a few minutes by yourself between now and then to relax and try not to let other people add to your stress.  If you can, try to just let any little hiccups the day of the wedding just slide by and enjoy your wedding day.  I hope you have a wonderful time :-*


Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #4 on: March 30, 2007, 12:30:24 AM »
My friend is a bit of a stresser and when she got married, she was one grumpy bride! Finally, I could see that she was on the verge of tears so I appointed myself her field agent. I shooed everyone out, and anyone who wanted to tell/ask her something went through me first. There were so many small little things that were not a big deal and would have upset her had she known about them at the time, but I fielded them first. Basically I ordered people around for her. Do you have anyone who you can put this job on? I wasn't her MofH, but I sorta took that onto myself and she said it made her way less stressed and in a much better mood in the end!


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Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #5 on: March 30, 2007, 12:35:53 AM »
I have to admit I had some cold feet and I was very stressed too.  I kept wishing we had eloped like I wanted to.  However, when the day itself came, I couldn't erase that huge smile from my face all day.

Good luck on your day!

June


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Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #6 on: March 30, 2007, 07:46:04 AM »
I think everyone starts to feel like that before their wedding, all the planning etc starts to get to you.  Try & relax, have a vodka or three, and all will be fine! Have a great day on Saturday, I'm sure it will be FAB.


Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #7 on: March 30, 2007, 09:00:24 AM »
Congratulations!!!!

My suggestion, from a bride who is usually stressed, but was not on the day(s)

Vodka ;D  A few shots and you are good to go. 


Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #8 on: March 30, 2007, 09:11:21 AM »
Hope you have a terrific day and can relax and enjoy the moment!  It is such an amazing day and it goes by pretty quickly!  Best to you!


Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #9 on: March 30, 2007, 11:06:38 AM »
We eloped.

Congrats and best of everything!  :D


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Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #10 on: March 30, 2007, 11:17:36 AM »
enjoy yourself & your day. 
If you harbour bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.


Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #11 on: March 30, 2007, 01:06:35 PM »


Best wishes on your wedding day!!  :)


Re: Getting married Saturday
« Reply #12 on: March 30, 2007, 01:34:30 PM »
Congratulations!!!!! :D


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