This is very interesting, I have had a very very very different experience on the NHS with breast care, where I live, this is handled in a very efficient manner.
I found a lump in my breast 2 weeks before I was due to go to a Family History study at the Nightengale Centre at Withington Hospital in Manchester, my GP suggested that I wait until I go tot his Family History Clinic to discuss it. Otherwise, she would have sent me to the clinic herself. I went to the clinic, within an hour I had a mammogram, a sonogram, and a needle biopsy. The surgeon that I saw (within minutes) told me that he would be treating me very aggresively and until he heard otherwise, he was going to be treating this as if it was cancer. The next day the surgeon rang me at work and told me himself that he was going to send me for an MRI, which I had a week later, after the MRI and all the results came in as it being a Fibroadenoma and I had a date for surgery the next day. In whole, from diagnosis to removal, the time was 2 weeks.
I can not understand how your doctor is not rushing you through. I thought that Breast Care was a PRIORITY for the NHS. I am INCREDULOUS at your story. I think you need to speak to your GP urgently (I find crying for the GP often helps) and demand that they refer you to get this removed asap. I am sorry you are having to go through this. Please call the Nightingale Centre in Manchester and ask for their advice. They are a wonderful resource and (I believe) one of the best centres for Breast Care in the country (this isn't a statistic, its just from my experience and what I hear from others who have been there) They are a wonderful support.
The Nightingale Centre was opened in January 1990 to house the Greater Manchester Breast Screening Service and provide a National Training Centre of breast cancer screening for Radiologists, Radiographers and Administration staff.
In more recent years, the Centre has enlarged to cover all new and review breast out patient clinics, the Family History Clinic, which is the largest in the U.K. together with various clinical trials and research projects.
Contact details are provided below for your information:
Screening Appointments - 0161 448 0456
G.P. Referrals for New Patients - 0161 291 5110
Queries regarding review patient appointments - 0161 291 5210
Specialist Breast Care Nursing Department - 0161 611 3113
Queries regarding Family History Clinic - 0161 611 4223
Directions: The Nightingale Centre is situated on Nell Lane just off the A556 Princess Parkway. There is disabled parking directly outside the building with the main visitors car park approximately 100 yards away.