Shel, sounds like a wonderful day planned for family and friends! Let me know what you come up with as far as what to wear...I've been wondering for myself (projecting into the HOPEFULLY not so distant future!) Hope the weather cooperates for you...well, with a ceremony, a dinner, and a party planned you're likely to have three different types of weather for each event! You must be getting soooo excited! I bet it will be very enjoyable and more relaxing for you though since you already lived through the "big" day last fall.
Take care, Geally