Hi all
I'm so glad to see continued interest in the London Book Club.
On the side, I am also reading a book called "Why Men Don't Listen and Why Women Can't Read Maps." In a nutshell, one of the sidelines from the authors of that book is they say that women tend to look for a reason to meet up and chat, and book clubs are a good forum for social meetings. And we know from experience that book clubs tend to be dominated by women. Whether any of us have thoroughly read and digested the book would by the authors' account be immaterial, as it is a good basis for meeting up and being sociable, establishing common ground, exploring ideas whether they are necessarily directly relevant to the topic at hand, etc.
Of course, it is ideal if we have all read the book and can speak about the content of it, but it is not absolutely necessary, in my opinion.
My husband joined us for the last book club, having not read the book, but he enjoyed the company of all of us nonetheless. He sincerely wants to join in the discussion next time and is trying to read the book when he can, but in all likelihood is probably not going to have time to read and digest it all. However, he is still keen to convene with all of us, and I think that is a very good thing indeed!