Hiya!!
Just thought Id comment on some of the info your lawyer gave you. Im in no way saying the lawyer doesnt know what theyre talking about but they
may be giving you impressions that are a little off. Hope the following helps and if anyone disagrees with my assessment, by all means let me know!! The rules change every day
And I admit, Im not infallible (although Id like to be!)
3. The I-864 form that I fill out has to be taken to the embassy *before* our final interview, so that I can sign it in front of someone official.
I believe, your lawyer was misinformed. (The following was true at least when I was preparing for my husband's interview in Oct 2003) You CAN take the I-864 with you on the day of the interview UNSIGNED. Mention to the immigration officer that is doing the interview that your I-864 is unsigned and they will ask you to show it, sign it in their presence, and then they will sign the in the witness box.
This is perfectly acceptable and is common practice. If the American spouse does not intend to be present at the interview, the affidavit must be signed before the interview. However in cases like mine, I went to the interview with Martin and had the interviewing officer witness my affidavit. Of course things do change (like getting your visa by delivery now!) so of course you should always keep up to date by checking with the Embassy via email to make sure this is still acceptable. ONLY the Embassy can confirm what is currently acceptable. Not me, not a lawyer.
5. Since he & I are moving together (and I'm not going out beforehand to set up domicile), having things on hand like shipping quotes might be helpful. They aren't required, but sometimes officials like to know that we've made official steps to move - it makes them feel better that we'll move within the 6 month limit and they aren't wasting their time by giving us the visa.
The American Embassy are perfectly aware that in any DCF case that comes before them, the American spouse is resident in the UK and therefore cannot show they have a domicile in the USA. The only entrance prerequisite for the visa holder is that the American must have either entered the US before the visa holder or be admitted at the same time. Domicile is not an issue with cases being processed through DCF therefore it is not necessary to present evidence that you are taking steps to make your move.
Having said that, if you want to take such details, by all means do. Anything to make you feel more comfortable on the day is a good thing. Just keep in mind though that you dont NEED to make these steps (like getting quotes, selling your house beforehand etc). In most cases they only wish to see the information that is specifically asked for on the instructions and forms. Anything more than that will be handed back to you when your documents are checked before the interview. Simply filing your application is a sign that you intend to move.
Also, the visa
does expire within 6 months of the issue date, and within that 6 months the visa holder must ENTER the united states and obtain their green card. It does NOT mean that you must move out of the UK completely within those 6 months.
In many cases, unless you were hasty in assuming you would get your visa and sold all of your assets before the interview, you will likely have things like houses and furniture to sell. That can take time - sometimes well more than 6 months. It is recommended by the Embassy that you do not liquidate your UK assets until you have been granted the visa. After that point the visa holder should only feel it necessary to enter the US to obtain the green card, not feel rushed to liquidate their entire estate in the UK and break business ties within the 6 months. Green card holders can return to the UK for up to one year at a time. One should only be worried if they expect to be out of the US for more than one year at a time as that will cause the green card to be lost. One should also endeavor to finalize their estate / business within 6 months of returning to the UK to ensure as little hassle as possible when returning to the US. Does all that make sense?
Example: Martin was granted Visa in Oct 2003. We began preparations for moving. We knew we would not be able to move out of the UK completely by April 04 (the month his visa was due to expire) so we made a trip to the US to get his green card in February 2004. We returned at the end of February after a two week visit to the states, green card in hand (and passport) and we have been in the UK since. We expect not to be moving out of the UK before September / October 2004 (we're selling house). Our 6th month out of the US will be in August so we expect questioning from the US immigration upon our return as to why we were out of the country for so long. Liquidating ones assets abroad is an acceptable reason. If we havent moved by January 2005 and havent returned to the US for a significant period before then, we'll be putting Martin's green card at risk. Make sense?
Remember, although they have the power to grant or deny your request for a visa, you are paying them to process the application at your request and that is a service. If you submit the application and pay the fee, they MUST proceed with the processing.
Weather you have the intention of moving within 6 months or 8 months is neither here nor there as long as you meet the requirement of entering the US within the validity of your visa. They will not deny you a visa based on weather they think its a "waste of their time" or not. Their job is to decide if the immigrant's case is genuine and if they are likely to become a public charge once in the united states. Thats all. If you dont enter the US during the validity of your visa, or you loose your green card due to being out of the US for over one year, thats your problem. Not theirs.
Take care,
Sarah
PS: I should really learn how to condense my thoughts!