Okay...I am just having a bad day in general. Been searching for this page for the whole time I have been back in the US and only just now finding it (have been back here since Sept 29th

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Here I sit, twiddling my thumbs, bored out of my mind and missing my daughter and hubby...who are both back in Scotland. I had overstayed my visit in the UK, tho thru not really my fault. We went over there at the end of Nov 07, we we're already married by this point, planning on staying for a few months, then coming back over and head for Alaska so I could have our daughter there. Come to find out they don't like preggo ppl to travel any later than about 32 weeks or so. I hadn't known this since I have only ever flown in the US and over here they vary between 36-37 weeks.
So...I was supposed to leave the UK by May 29, 2008. I had our daughter on the 25th. Four days later there was no way I was leaving my daughter over there and flying back, plus I was nursing. We had filed for an extension so I could stay longer based on the fact that "at that time I was not fit for travel...and it would not be beneficial for my daughter to be separated from me at this important bonding time" (that was in the letter from my Dr. Mid July I finally heard back from Immigration and they had asked for another letter from my Dr, which I sent them quickly. I hear back from them again almost 4 weeks later and they are saying I have been denied an extension based on the fact that the new letter from my Dr. says I am now fit for travel. Well...of course it is, Masters of the Obvious!...anyway...I am rambling.
We looked into getting a lawyer, contacted many. Also got ahold of someone at the Immigration Advisory Service(I think that is the name)...everyone says I should leave and file for the FLR(M)...so I do this. I even left over a week before the new rules got into effect on Oct 1.
I do my Biometrics appt on
Oct 3 in NYC, overnight my Visa application with FedEx
Oct 4 while still in NYC, and receive an email from them on
Oct 7th saying it will take 10 working days to process. Then the next day,
Oct 8th, I get another email saying it will take 25 working days. They also said I would get an email when a decision has been made on my application. Now here I sit...30 days later. Missing my husband and daughter and depressed. He can't come over since his passport went away with all of our paperwork and application stuff, and she doesn't have a passport for either country yet.
I have tried calling, and calling, and calling....still nothing. I have sent 4 emails in the last week and nothing also. In the emails I was sent they say they cannot be contacted unless they have gone over the processing time limit....but how is it anyone can ever contact them?
Okay...that is all for my ranting...I just needed to get all of that out. My husband is stressing about all of this too so I don't want to get him down with all of this. Just needed to get it off my chest and hopefully someone out there may know something, or at least tell me I am not the only person going thru this

Ahh..also, because my hubby is annoyed with this stuff, he is planning on contacting a lawyer over in Scotland to see if they can speed up the process. I told him I didn't think it would do anything and would be a waste of money, but he has an appt. on Thursday. I am right in thinking this, aren't I? If they couldn't do anything while I was there, can they actually do something now that I am gone? okay..that really is all for now...thanks for reading, if you got this far.

~Ange